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ojdrummin

43 M Alameda, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Down to earth guy from the Midwest. Being able to lead an active, outdoor lifestyle in an area rich with culture and artistic opportunities is what has kept me out here since 1998.
What I’m doing with my life
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Performing and teaching music. I'm fortunate to play with some great musicians and teach really good kids.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skating
Camping
Tinkering with cars
Listening
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that I have a nice smile and sexy voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: They Marched Into Sunlight, Go Tell It On The Mountain, The Jungle
Movies: Raging Bull, Manhattan, Swingers, Zoolander
Music: Anything played well.
Food: Italian, Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- music
- a bicycle
- sleep
- friends
- an ice rink
- humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can grow and get better at what I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wondering whether or not joining the A-list is worth $20.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Chemistry is important to you. You enjoy a good glass of wine. I have amassed a pretty good collection of wine from all of the winery gigs I did the past couple of Summers.