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ok_psyche

43 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:44pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I recently moved back to NY, after living in New Orleans for the past 3 years (also lived there 8 years before Katrina.)

I have never been married, although I have had a few long term relationships, one of which included cohabitation.

I was born in the year of the Dog, so that might explain the loyalty, affection and occasional howling at the moon.

I like to surround myself with creative people who can make me laugh.

I've thought about lying about my age since most people think I'm around 30, but I'm too damn honest. Good genes, my family ages more slowly than most.

Must love pets. I have two dogs and a cat. Right now they live with my parents, however, I've always had animals in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Something I love. I mainly work as a massage therapist. I've been doing it for 10 years. It's extremely rewarding work. I also model for art classes.
I grew up in NY. I lived in New Orleans for 8 years before Katrina. I was displaced for a few years but I returned Spring of 2009.
It's a great time to be here, I knew the Saints were gonna win the Superbowl.
I’m really good at
Helping friends out in a pinch.
I make a kickass coconut ginger soup.
Multi-tasking.
Amusing myself.
Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on whether or not I'm wearing a costume.
Probably my awesome rack.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I have a bit of a print addiction. Some favorites: Jitterbug Perfume, Monkeyluv, Omnivore's Dilemma, anything by David Sedaris, Sookie Stackhouse vampire novels, Harry Potter, Game of Thrones. Now reading Armistead Maupin's Tales of the City series.

Movies: Idiocracy, Memento (Or anything in the mindf**k genre), Grizzly Man, Dead Man, almost anything with Johnny Depp

Music: WWOZ, Interpol, Electric 6, James Hall, PULP, Radiohead, Death Cab for Cutie, Johnny Cash, the Shins, Nick Cave, Satchmo, Billie Holiday, Black Keys
St. James Infirmary - no matter who sings it, gets me every time

Foodz: Pho, sushi, fancy cheeses, dark chocolate, organic bacon (from happy pigs). I miss getting hot pear cider from the Union Square farmer's market and borsht from Greenpoint.
I love to cook, and I'm happier when I have the chance to cook for others. I'm trying to eat more local and organic foods.

TV: Mighty Boosh, Flight of the Conchords, True Blood, LOST, Project Runway. My roommates have gotten me into The Walking Dead.
The six things I could never do without
lip balm, coffee, comfy bed, human contact, bathtub, alone time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dating - hence the dating website. If I had someone to date I wouldn't have to think about it and could concentrate on more productive thoughts.
How wonderful it would be to have sex anytime I wanted with someone I cared about that wasn't myself.
Why some guys on here seem so interested in dating girls who are 10+ years younger. Women hit their sexual peak about 15 years after men do and women tend to live longer, so it would just seem logical for guys to date older women. Although I guess young girls are less challenging and some guys are just lazy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe meeting you for a drink?
Or meeting up with friends or staying in and watching Netflix.
I'm often refereeing tiny dog wrestling matches.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Buy me a drink and I'll tell you something scandalous.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
I message you.

You are at least somewhat emotionally available.

You're often mistaken for Johnny Depp.

You have a photo, I don't respond to messages from people without faces, it's creepy.