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ok_to_be_you

31 / M / Straight / Single

San Mateo, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
i like taking classes and trying new things.
I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, hiking, rock climbing, kayaking, and a little running just in case I get chased by The Man :).
I have taken a few classes in motorcycle riding, wilderness survival, electrical wiring.
I want to try surfing, stand up paddleboarding, learn to play guitar, fly a plane, speak more Chinese, and do some gardening, machining, and woodworking.

I live in the Peninsula but I work in Silicon Valley so I'm down there all the time.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Silicon Valley in the software industry.
I've been trying to force myself to try new things.
I’m really good at
admitting when I'm wrong.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a big pop culture nerd so it would be too long if I listed everything I like. I've been on a standup comedy kick recently.

Books: Cannery Row by John Steinbeck, The moon is a harsh mistress by Robert Heinlein

Movies: I like most movies that aren't a sequel or adaptation of a video game, comic book, old TV show, etc. I like most of those too, but I don't pay money to see them because I don't want to encourage the film industry's laziness/mediocrity.

TV: 30 Rock, Louie, Breaking Bad, Justified

Music: I like everything that's not on MTV. Johnny Cash, Rilo Kiley, The Magnetic Fields, Jean Grae, The Roots, Edan.

Food:
I like everything. Think Anthony Bourdain.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Michelle: No, you don’t understand! I suck at relationships. I’m like Godzilla. Men run from me. They flee. Not just Japanese men, all nationalities flee.
Hubbell: I won’t flee. I’ll be the one scientist who understands you. The one who knows you’re not burning the city down because you’re evil. You’re burning the city down to protect the giant lizard eggs you just laid in a cave by the ocean. The cave no one knows is there—but me.
Michelle: God, that’s beautiful.
- Bunheads
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I secretly want the water cooler at work to be empty so I can change the bottle and feel all manly.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to. I am looking to meet sooner or later, not just for online pen pals.