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okayrain

36 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Swahili (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Hindi (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I am a cis-fella, would describe myself as queer, but identify publicly as hetero (primarily because my material reality is enabled by cis-male and hetero privilege). Organizing locally and internationally. I get excited about doing something not just talking about oppression of all kinds. I am currently in a PhD program, but I like to say that iIam 3% academic and 97% artist. I am in a consensual non-monogamous relationship and looking for open , poly-minded, non-monogamous folks. Hoping to connect with POC loves. I love to connect people who actively meditate on the personal and political. I wish to connect with others who are agnostics about everything. Who respect that this world is chaos everywhere, and that order is a lie that we tell ourselves, or that is imposed on us so that we can become manageable. I dream of meeting you who are troubled by nationalism, nation states, colonial states such as Canada. Lets connect if you can call me out/in on my shit and you are comfortable being called out/in with love of course.

For some reason I felt like sharing this. This is part of a poem i wrote when I was in grade 11, while working as a housekeeper for a very cruel person. I named myself Rags :)

Rags a bony man
Denying mine
Breath to become
flames of thunder
I dream of the fearless
days that i fear will never
come
Why here and now
Why rags and whips
Will this dusk end with
a brighter dawn?

I love to play to music, tell stories, dance and cook.
Dancing and watching people dance
Speaking to and listening to radical political thought
Cooking yummiest and eating yummiest foods
Playing and watching ( sometimes) soccer
Reading and reading and reading.
Growing food
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Music, cooking, gardening, working on phd at oise, writing, taking care of family as in the whole village family, organizing. Musing about lots of stuff .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fusbol:)
Cooking
Listening
Rummy 500 lol
Conversing
Asking good but difficult question
Taking responsibility
Aware of mi emotions and what they make me do
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Noodly little dreads
Carry my mbira around
Smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list
Mostly theory, philosophy
Bell hooks, fanon, cabral, angela davis, andrea smith, malcom x, judith butler, foucault, etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food
Fam
Autonomy
Affection
Community
Mbira
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love
Relating
Consent
Food
Education
Social change
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home, dancing, cooking, hanging with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Meh
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to hang, no expectations other than we respect and cherish each other.
You have thought about race, gender, land, sexuality, ability, class, history etc
You are poly, non-monogamous, open
You enjoy conversations, deep conversations about anything
You do something about social injustice
You wanna hear good stories while we share food