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okaysurefine

53 M Santa Monica, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:07pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am old enough to have made mistakes. Wise enough to have learned from them. Honest enough to admit that on occasion I nevertheless repeat them. Smart enough to laugh at myself when I do. And kind enough to forgive myself and move on.

I've got a nice life. It's filled with ideas, art, music, dance, discussion, thought, laughter and love. I'd like to share that with someone who wants to share her version of the same with me. If you can salsa dance, even better.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it. Enjoying it. Constantly evaluating and learning from it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
At not valuing my accomplishments as much as I value my integrity and my ambitions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends on where I am and what I'm doing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Contemporary authors: Jonathan Franzen, Jonathan Tropper, Henning Mankell, Mariana Dietl.

21st Century authors: Raymond Chandler, James M. Cain, Hemingway, Kerouac, Salinger, Carver, TC Boyle, Charles Bukowski, Roald Dahl, AA Milnes, Strunk & White and Miriam Webster.

Music: KCRW, Classic Rock, Classic Folk, Latin Jazz, contemporary tango, samba and other sounds from South America

TV: The Daily Show, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, The Good Wife, Longmire, Episodes.

Movies: Foreign over American, thrillers over action, drama over comedies, no horror...blech!

Food: Yes, please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Love and laughter
2) Music, and a guitar to make some
3) my passport
4) Something to write with and something to write on
5) A dictionary to write better and think more clearly
6) My amazing sisters
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I'm a writer. I think. A lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do not have a typical Friday night. I might be working. I might be out salsa dancing. I might be out dining with friends. I might be on a date. I might be out until 2 in the morning. I might be asleep by 10:30.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I have things that I would prefer to admit privately.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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If you are smart and kind, happy with yourself and want someone to share your world rather than rescue you from it, by all means, give a shout!