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47 Oklahoma City, OK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:44pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I believe in actively living my life, and not just watching it pass by. I really enjoy random conversations with total strangers, especially the elderly. Laughter really is the best medicine, and I enjoy it immensely.

I am creative, mentally and emotionally stable, and willing to try almost anything once. I love good conversation, and while I do talk quite a lot I am also an active listener who really wants to hear what other people have to say.

While I have learned from the past, I do leave it there where it belongs and do my best to not dwell on it. This means I'm willing to accept today and work hard to make it the best it can be, as well as looking toward making each new day even better for me and those around me. I treat my friends like family, and they all know they can truly rely on me.

I know where I am heading in life, and would love to have someone to share the adventure with! (Preferably someone who leans to the political left, or at least knows the value of common middle ground.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moving forward. Learning as much as I can. Being kind to strangers. Laughing at every opportunity. Photographing everything under the Oklahoma sky!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, being silly, remembering where you left your car keys, country dancing (and slow dancing!), writing, dog training, being a friend, choosing a good wine, and road trips.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am almost always smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My tastes in music are widely varied, although country is most often at the top of the list. I listen to a lot of modern music, including rap, indie, pop, and some good ol' fashioned rock'n'roll. No speed metal, and no jazz. I also like oldies and folk music, and love a good concert!

I mostly read fantasy and sci-fi. I never read self-help books. I do like the occasional autobiography. I'm also strangely addicted to Florida authors Tim Dorsey and Carl Hiaasen.

I love action movies, comedies, really super bad werewolf movies, and good chick flicks (and yes, there is such a thing as 'bad' chick flicks!).

While I prefer to get out and about, I do like good television. I mostly like comedies such as The Big Bang Theory, The Goldbergs, and Modern Family, and I also enjoy NCIS, NCIS New Orleans, and Hawaii Five-O. Totally addicted to The Blacklist.

Cooking is one of my favorite hobbies, and I love to cook Thai, Italian, and Mexican dishes. I love dining out as well, and I am especially fond of locally-owned restaurants. I like sushi, and Indian food, and a really good pizza now and then.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends (including my dogs!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm the type who always thinks about the future, more so than the past.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something other than sitting in front of the computer! Out with friends, seeing a movie, taking a late-night drive to nowhere...
You should message me if
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You love living your life and not watching it pass by, if you're not expecting me to go to church (seriously!), and if you like plus-size women. (I am perfectly happy with myself and my life, if plus-size women are not your preference then that's great because we all have our preferences and I wish you the best of luck!)