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44 M Sebastopol, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:01pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am interested in meeting women who are down to earth, easy going and likes to explore what this wonderful world has to offer. I love being outdoors, live music, culture, art and doing what I can to make this world a better place to live. Gardening brings me peace and hopefully great veggies/fruit. I am also a single father of a beautiful, smart 7 y.o. daughter who I share custody 50/50, which also gives me adult time. She is the pride and joy of my life. I love kids, even if they are not mine. They are our future !!
What I’m doing with my life
I am a small business owner of an alternative high school that is actively involved in working with "at -risk" youth to help them become contributing members of society. Music, art, critical thinking, problem solving, counseling and sports are examples of things I do during my day. In my free time I stay active by playing in a band, hiking, kayaking, mountain biking and playing basketball. I also enjoy cooking, watching interesting movies and taking naps.
I’m really good at
Listening, Problem solving, building things, basketball, playing instruments, cooking and helping people.
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe my eyes or maybe my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am currently reading Desert Queen. It's about Gertrude Bell and her experiences as the most powerful woman of the British Empire in the Middle East during the WW1 era. Yes, I believe there should be more women in positions of power today. I like non-fiction, memoirs, autobiographies and biographies. I also like realistic fiction. Some of my recents reads have been Kite Runner, Unfamiliar Fishes, Then They Came For Me, A Walk Across The Sun, Unbroken and Dora's Sleepover. Yes, I also love to read kids book with my daughter. I am somewhat of movie buff and tend to watch Indie Films/Foreign Films, but can also find entertainment value in Hollywood blockbusters from time to time. Music plays a big part in my life and covers a wide spectrum. I listen to reggae often, as well as funk, soul, latin, rock and everything in between. I like listening to jazz during dinner.
The six things I could never do without
Morning hugs/snuggles from my daughter
Intellectual Curiosity
Music - playing instruments, listening to it , seeing it live !!
Hope for a better world
Experiencing the many facets of the natural world
Basketball - I've got to be honest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be the best father, parent and friend to my daughter, developing my school in a challenging business environment, and what delicious feast I will make for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing - either with my daughter, alone or with friends. Sometimes I'm playing music at a local club with my band, which I love to do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like the song " Cruel Summer" by Bananarama. Yes, I can be a sucka for catchy pop tunes
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think friendship, good times and a deeper connection may be possible !!