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okckari

33 / M / Straight / Available

Lansing, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
May 6
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Real name Brandon for those who care, I'm married to
Eyes4music in an open poly relationship. She keeps
me grounded and is a good go to person about my quirks for which
there are a few.

Update 2012/08/12

Ok! So I've been off of okcupid for over a month+ dealing with some me issues (weeee anxiety adventures). I need to apologize to a few people and will probably never hear back from others. Sigh, sorry if it comes across like I'm a flake or something.
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Update 2012/07/14
We've moved to Lansing. I'm getting use to the area. Where is everybody at?
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Update 2012/03/23
I seem to get along well with the Atheist crowd reasonably well. I don't mind religious people but this is based off of my OKC searches and matches, prove me wrong! Answers that relate to homosexually being a sin, or teaching creationism in schools, and having children of the same race flag negative with me.
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Update II 2011/01/03
The above update is the level of seriousness you can expect from me
in most situations.
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Update I 2011/01/03
The OKC-bot finds it humorous to tell me I might like %50+
enemy matches
. We should honorably duel at dawn with
either muskets or sabers. Because I am obviously right I will
pick.
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Update 2012/01/20
What's this! new pictures
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I'd like to believe I'm fun and outgoing. General interests are
photography (amateur), computers (big nerd), games (legitimacy,
dominion, ticket to ride, zombie flux), video games (consoles,
jrpgs),

I tend to self select bbw / ssbbw women and I'm happy with it. If I've checked out your profile I think there is something going on that is worth while I'll say hi. I like making new friends and trying to get to know some one.
What I’m doing with my life
Stopping to smell the roses so to speak. Learning to slow down.

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Update 2012/08/12

I've moved to Lansing and have a new job in Operations (I work at a data center). I sit and watch servers all day and make sure they run. It's the most wonderfully boring job EVER! On a good day absolutely nothing happens and I read up on discrete math and logic problems for fun, on a bad day the sky is falling and I have enough stimuli to keep me engaged my whole shift.

Note this isn't sarcasm. I'm genuinely happy with it.

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Update 2012/01/08
Starting full time classes at WCC so my time will be limited. If you see me crying in front of a bash/zsh shell show mercy on my pitiful soul.
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I’m really good at
All around nerd/gamer. Good with kids (terrorizing them). Likes to listen.

I'm getting back into my photography. After reading the strobist blog I decided to get some studio lights. Hopefully I will actually put some more updated pictures of myself up.

With out a doubt I love computers, in particular open source programs. But since my nerd levels are off the charts if you aren't interested in it I try not to bore people with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Fairly Outgoing
I genuinely smile

an adult wearing Heeleys ?!?!?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Current as of 2012/01/02

Books
- The Practice of System and Network Administration
- Network Warrior
- Ender's Game
- You Mean I'm Not Lazy, Stupid or Crazy?!
- A Dictionary of Basic Japanese Grammar
- Kanji Fast Finder
- The Days are Just Packed: A Calvin and Hobbes Collection
- Boondocks: Because I Know You Don't Read The Newspaper
- Invisible Man

Movies
- The Usual Suspects
- There are more I need to check my Netflix cue/torrents

Shows
- Dexter
- Super natural
- Drop Dead Diva
- The Misfits (British)

Music
- Miles Davis
- Red Hot Chilli Peppers
- Punjabi MC
- RJD2
- Danger Mouse
- MF Doom
- WuTang Clan
- Charlie Parker
- Led Zeppelin
- Queen

Food
- Not big on slabs of meat (steak/chops/ribs)
- Not a big chicken eater
^ the above two got my ghetto pass revoked
- Not a big egg eater either (scrambled, sunny, egg salad)
- Sushi
- PB&J & Nutella
The six things I could never do without
2L hydration water pack
Carbon water filters
Hitachi Magic wand (what it's for my back HONEST)
Nook touch
Bicycle (folding if I'm lucky)
Laptop w/ BT5 and the ability to inject packets

This is my short zombie list. I'd improvise my weapon on the fly. Get shelter as I go. Try not to die eating what i can find. Fuck I forgot a can opener! Shit SHIT SHIT, dies of starvation not getting killed by zombies x_x;
I spend a lot of time thinking about
* Who would be in my party in a zombie apocalypse.
* How to find a safe house.
* Judo/Krav Maga/Akido for kids.
* Where to find some good sushi, coney dog, hummus.
* How to get Openfiler to stop dropping my iSCSI targets.
* Why don't get I get responses when I write out a "hi" message.
* What should I use a straight edge or a safety razor --- Answered this one double edge saftey razor ftw ---
* What should my next camera lens/body be
* Why do I like math
On a typical Friday night I am
- Plotting world domination with my kid
- Going out with Eyes4music
- Tying up Eyes4music
- Playing a board game dominion, catan, flux
- Urban Exploring
- In a data center hating everything ::cries::
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wow, I don't know. I mean, sheesh give me a few drinks first.

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Update 2012/01/03
Ah it took a few profile searches to figure out what this is for. I guess private thing I'm willing to admit about myself is that I internalize my anxieties. While this may not seem like a big deal I'm learning how to address things as they come and not have them blow up in my face/worry about the worst possible outcome.
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Update 2012/01/13
New secret shame! Fist of the Blue Sky manga
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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
- looking for friends
- curious
- adventurous
- why not!