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okcukoop

43 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:54am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
stop.
look: http://instagram.com/kungfukilt
listen: http://grooveshark.com/s/Daisy/4yDU9k?src=5

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i'm in austin/san antonio at the moment. live in portland, ore most of the time, choosing to winter down here, as i am from here, have family/friends here. that said, i'm a bit in-between the two these days, so i'm keeping my options open (both in terms of whom i date and where i will be at any given moment). if that bothers you, my not being in your 'hood year-round, best look elsewhere. although if i found the right partner, my stints in the opposite city might be a bit shorter. but that's a ways off...let's stick with the now for now...

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i remember a couple years back, listening to a song by e, you’ll be the scarecrow. i hadn’t listened to the song in at least a half dozen years, but something just told me to spin it up, and so i did, over and over. it always tugs at me, this song that references the end of the wizard of oz, when dorothy tiptoes up to the scarecrow’s ear and whispers, ‘i think i’m going to miss you most of all’. the next morning, i had a dentist appointment. i signed in, walked over to the waiting area, and as i went to sit down, i noticed in the kid area a flat-screen tele, playing the wizard of oz. and not just any moment in the film, but the exact moment where dorothy whispers this goodbye to the scarecrow. i stepped up to the screen, mesmerized and perplexed, and, believing deeply in such signs, immediately wondered: when i leave this world, who’ll be my scarecrow?

i’ve learned some hard and lovely lessons of late, about loss and giving. and i now know i have to be fearless in love, that holding back protects no one’s heart. as a close friend twice told me, we have to love fully no matter what. it may only last a week, but we still have to strive to be someone’s scarecrow. maybe then, we’ll find ours…

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i'm not 'looking for love'. i am 'looking' to hang with someone, have some laughs, wander about, and discover some things about another and about myself. the other will happen. or not.

"Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity.” ― Gilda Radner
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
keeping my space positive, learning to appreciate myself and others much more. capturing some of this in song, by learning the guitar and writing songs. taking photos that capture the beauty that most others miss. getting my house in a state that lets it be self-sustaining (and me, too;). dreaming of nepal in the fall.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh. laughing at myself. being sincere. being sarcastic. wandering. writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes. my style. my sincerity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books:
wind-up bird chronicle (h. murakami)
when you are engulfed in flames (d. sedaris)
a language older than words (d. jensen)

movies:
babel
in the loop
melancholia
les glaneurs et la glaneuse (the gleaners & i)

music:
pride (phosphorescent)
benji (sun kil moon)
built on glass (chet faker)

food:
sushi
thai
vietnamese
interior or baja mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
bike
guitar
goodwill (the store and the feeling...does that count as two?!)
taste buds
laughter
artichokes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
overpopulation + over consumption = spontaneous combustion
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
avoiding the crowds...thursday tends to be my friday. i'll stick in and watch a movie, or go to a pub i know won't smell like a meat market.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'll do nearly anything for a story.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're intrigued by what i've said, possess a goofy and unpretentious sense of humor, and are up (or down) for adventures and wandering.