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57 F Oberlin, OH

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 50–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 5
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Swahili (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I enjoy music, reading, dancing and biking and hiking. I am well-traveled and a homebody. I love whimsical rides to nowhere discovering interesting things on the way. I am funny, a good friend, intelligent and smart. I’m a bit of problem solver and love a good mystery. I am kind, caring, honest, friendly and competent. I am outside as often as I can gardening, doing yard work, shoveling snow, walking or just enjoying the fresh air. I like to pull innocent pranks on others and cook up outings with friends for dinner, movies, shopping, a winery visit. I am a regular churchgoer and sing in the choir. I participate in many community events and have volunteered and taken leadership roles in organizations ranging from preschool boards to hunger and homeless organizations. I have always been an early riser so my nightlife is pretty quiet. A good book near a warm fire with my dog and cat at my feet is a great way to spend a chilly evening. I am a one-man woman. I like me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am looking for an intelligent, open-minded gentleman with a sense of humor who is outgoing and genuinely affectionate.
I’m really good at
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Scratching my head.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have commented on my friendliness, openness and have my smile. I have many interests and I am comfortable with strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy reading fiction, especially mysteries. I love movies, international movies, independent movies, comedies and dramas. I like the theater - dramas, comedies, classics and musicals but not musical revues. I will eat food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'll put together for supper. Wondering who I will be with in the near future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Re-writing my OKCupid profile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no tatoos.
You should message me if
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Send me a message if you are interested in talking or getting together for lunch or a walk. Please, hetrosexual men only, with a picture, and single (which means you are not married -- for real!).