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okruby

52 / F / straight / Single

Charlottesville, Virginia

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5' 6" (1.67m).
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Fit
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I am perceptive, elaborate, and visually revelatory.

My Self-Summary

You are aware, are you not Hector, that the gods are tireless fans of slapstick? (-Tom Robbins)

What I’m doing with my life

paying attention, climbing mountains, practicing reiki, getting out of town for the sake of heart and soul, working hard/not so hard, trying to bring on some new art, gearing up, gearing down, blazing through, wishing for a winter jacket that doesn't leak feathers everywhere

I’m really good at

most things, when I put the effort in.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Ali Smith, Jeanette Winterson, Stegner, Robt Musil, Marquez, Calvino, Szymborska, Billy Collins.......
Pan's Labyrinth, Big Lebowski, A Very Long Engagement, Everything is Illuminated, In Bruges, Fight Club, Ground Hog Day, Il Postino, My Life as a Dog, The Motorcycle Diaries, Eternal Sunshine, Pulp Fiction, Blood Diamond
Eddie Izzard, B. Galactica, The Wire, 6 Feet Under, TALife

Slow Food, here, as opposed to fast. Not something killed in a crock pot.
I love food - simple food, complex food
But there are some things I definitely won't go out of my to sample.

music just now as of 15 minutes:
Jamie Cullum, Monte Montgomery, Foxy Brown, Stephen Marley, Jimmy Eat World, Elliot Smith

uh oh, can't keep up with daily music documentation. Man. So let's say this week is our little local treasure: TJU

The six things I could never do without

fabulocity
milk & honey
hot bath w a good book
company/solitude

I spend a lot of time thinking about

colors, what's now, what's next, why something that seems profoundly right can also be stupid and meaningless... and vice versa

On a typical Friday night I am

typical?

You should message me if

you play insomnia jeopardy.
in your mind.