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50 M Los Angeles, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 4:41pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi, thanks for visiting! Here are the highlights:

-Midwest raised (like good, sharp cheddar) WI > NYC > L.A.
-gainfully employed, ambitious, passionate
-fit & enjoy outdoor stuff; cycling, snowboarding, hiking, etc
-wry sense of humor
-I dress like an adult
-patient, generous, kind, reliable
(willing to bail you out at 3 a.m... once. okay, maybe twice.)
-mix of artistic/creative & scientific/rational
-nickname at age 4? "The Mayor"
-the calm person in a crisis
-financial situation; excellent; no debt
-I've answered an embarrassing number of the OkCupid Questions & had fun offering "explanations" you might enjoy having a look...

And did you know the match % only means something if you & the other person have answered a lot of the same questions? Oh, math.

I'm curious, grounded and about 60% water
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
being attentive, speaking, reading, writing, acting, making-it-up-as-i-go, learning, looking for ways to make a positive contribution, spending time with friends and family, making a great living doing the things I love.

want to explore L.A. more, the art scene, galleries, museums and see more of the wilds of California's outdoors nature parks
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, kindness, being curious, figuring out how things work, being patient, empathizing, raising either eyebrow to indicate a healthy skepticism, noticing the little-noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love good books, movies, shows, music & food. I love hearing about other people's favorites and discovering new favorites.

"an astronaut's guide to life on earth" "team of rivals" "blood meridian" "packing for mars" "bossy pants" "complete dorothy parker" "willpower" "steve jobs" "pride & prejudice" also, david sedaris, mary roach, malcom gladwell, bill bryson, thich nhat hanh...

i love movies old and new, of all types. some randoms: "grand budapest hotel" "captain phillips" "philomena" ... "shaun of the dead "rififi" "young at heart" "michael clayton" "les parapluies de cherbourg" "once" "the lives of others" "cinema paradiso" "jaws" "the godfather" anything Marx Brothers...

music many, many genres; live radio, I do stuff at kcrw dum dum girls, nick cave, first aid kit, neko case, the black angels, pixies, cate le bon, the duke spirit, black keys, cage the elephant, nick lowe, haim, leonard cohen, replacements, steve earle, xtc, tom waits, richard thompson, wilco, emmylou harris, elvis costello, lucinda williams, dylan, the clash, beethoven, monk, mozart...

fan of many public radio shows.

i tend to watch tv while doing other things, unless i'm watching with someone; Key & Peele, Daily Show, Colbert, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Homeland, Downton, Sherlock, Luther, House Of Cards

good food, fresh food, thai, vietnamese, indian, mexican... basically vegetarian but I'm cool with whatever you do; I eat & let eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, friends, physical activity, a creative outlet, humor, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like that zen-like, existential statement, OkCupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! contained in my answers to OkCupid questions... if you've answered a lot of them, you've already admitted many (formerly) private things.
...maybe that I can't seem to find pics of me with a big, toothy smile
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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P.S. You might like this TED Talk about how OkCupid match % works: (by OkC co-founder Christian Rudder)
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