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23 M Liverpool, NY

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  • Ages 22–29
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Last Online
Sep 3
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
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English, Japanese (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello! I am a human being who has lived on this planet for 23 years. So far I have enjoyed this little adventure called life. I give life an 8.4 out of 10 so far, so if life was a movie I think it would be on the IMDB top 250. Maybe it would fit in between Aliens and Taxi Driver on the list.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently graduated college. Writing a book.

If I ever get bored, I have connections in law, so I'll go to law school and then just go swimming in a giant pool of cash for the rest of my life. I don't even want money.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Philosophizing. Sarcastically philosophizing. Writing. Analyzing literature and film for social commentary, metaphors, etc. For example, uncovering the fact that Toy Story 3 is actually a pro-communist, anti-authoritarian film.

Learning languages. I speak an intermediate level of Japanese. It's pretty cool to watch a Japanese movie without subtitles and understand the majority of it. Gonna have to go on a trip to Tokyo sometime soon and give it a test drive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair being pretty wild.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dostoevsky's Brothers Karamazov and Margaret Atwood's Oryx and Crake are my favorite two books. Other than that, I'm mostly a fan of the classics and philosophy (though I do like lighter reading too). Hemingway, Vonnegut, Nabokov, Orwell, Woolf, Joyce, Milton, Donne, Camus, Wilde, Twain, Steinbeck, Dickinson, Lord Tennyson, Blake, Wordsworth, Lord Byron, Mr. and Mrs. Shelley, Alexander Pope, Chaucer, Shakespeare, Frost, Plath, Kafka, Derrida, Wittgenstein, Watts, Lovecraft, etc.

Kierkegaard is the only author anyone really needs to read. The Sickness Unto Death.

Music: Burial, Tim Hecker, The Magnetic Fields, Talk Talk, Bark Psychosis, iamamiwhoami, Lambchop, Red House Painters, The Angels of Light, Low, Baths, Have a Nice Life, The Microphones, Mount Eerie, 16 Horsepower, M83, Cold Cave, Unwound, Boards of Canada, Autre Ne Veut, Broadcast, Guided by Voices, How To Dress Well, James Blake, Portishead, Animal Collective, Cloud Cult, Broken Social Scene, Sigur Rós, Grouper, Why?, The Radio Dept, Swans, Dead Can Dance, Current 93, Death In June, Destroyer, Jesu, Cocteau Twins, Mr. Bungle, John Maus, Jim O' Rourke, Chad VanGaalen, R. Stevie Moore, Xiu Xiu, Gang Gang Dance, Codeine, Disco Inferno, Sunset Rubdown, Thee More Shallows, East River Pipe, Hum, and lots and lots of Japanese shoegaze.

I watch movies, shows, and sometimes I eat food, but I don't want to write a book here. Well, The Night of the Hunter (1955) is probably my favorite movie of all time so I'll mention that at least.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
NOTHING because I am an enlightened Buddhist monk.

Nah. Just kidding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ideas for my books. Giving my imagination some good exercise. How the space between an electron and the nucleus of an atom is the same space that's between planets and stars. How everything is transient, and how wonderful that is. Analyzing my dreams (my own method, not the awful Freudian method). God. Penguins. Thinking in Japanese sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, watching a movie, sleeping. Sometimes going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes listen to Gimme More by Britney Spears.
You should message me if
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You want to know what lies down l'avenir. If you've ever wanted to go on a trip to Tokyo. If you really like books. If you really don't like books (thats ok too, the book readers are an endangered species).