Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Custom okcupid ?s. My answers are below. :) )
1. Consider the quote "Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what
makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is
people who have come alive." - reading that, what pops into your
2. What's the scariest, most complicated, taboo, or shameful thing
about your sexuality?
3. What were you doing the last time you met someone? The time
4. Consider Venkatesh Rao's definition of social objects. What are
yours? What are mine? Wild guesses and imaginative flights of fancy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"And I never started to plow in my life
That some one did not stop in the road
And take me away to a dance or picnic.
I ended up with forty acres;
I ended up with a broken fiddle—
And a broken laugh, and a thousand memories,
And not a single regret."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing patterns. Being curious. Understanding systems. Balancing
things on my chin. Cocreating scenius
. Being inspired by good ideas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1: At the moment, it's writing custom OKCupid questions. :) I know,
it's a cop out, but true.
And more generally it's making/doing/organizing things; one of my
dream jobs is building a camp for contact improv dancers at
burningman. Sexy self-aware people, in touch with their bodies, and
into connection and play. Me building and managing and fixing and
making it all work.
Maybe I'll do the same sortof thing in a Jordanian refugee camp, or
in a trans rights NGO in the city, or....
2: Heh. Not tellin'. but I'll probably tell you on our first date
if you ask. I'm a big fan of Brene Brown's concept of the power of
vulnerabilty. Also I'm very kinky, so it's helpful to know, for
example, if the idea us going to a rope bondage workshop is
3: Hmm...it was, come to think of it, at a rope bondage workshop.
:) I was paired up with a random partner, and we got to play
verbally without the job-interview style first-date questioning,
while both doing something else we enjoyed (me tying her up.) The
time before that was building shit at burningman; before that, rock
4. Coffee. (but I might just be saying that cause it's morning, and
coffee. :) ) Mac laptops. iPhones. High quality tools that come
with lifetime warranties. REI. climbing shoes. playa dust. IPA.
Robert Anton Wilson. a passport. hmm. this is a fun question, and I
bet my answer will be completely different over time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My favorite people are intelligent, playful, quick to laugh,
perceptive, and appreciative of the wonder of being alive. If
that's you, come on over to this side of the table.
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