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26 New Orleans, LA Genderfluid, Gender Nonconforming

Genderfluid, Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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Queer, Heteroflexible
Black, Other, —
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Atheism but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have nostalgia for places that were never real...

I also have nostalgia for pineapple upside down cakes, which are a different sort of unreal.

You can meet me with your passions and ideals, or maybe just your favorite late night playlists and dessert recipes. I'm sure we'll find something in common.

(consider this entire profile a gratuitous list of conversation prompts)

I was born and raised in New Orleans (I'm guessing that's the reason I have a childlike enthusiasm for festivity). I also just moved back to the city after spending a decade away. I don't know many people here and I'm looking to change that.

I'm fluid (like the paint on your brush, the blood in your veins, the ink in your screen printer... or the unfortunate characteristics of transnational capitalism).
I'm attracted to ideas as well as people.

"eschatology" sounds like candy in my mouth,
I have a post-apocalyptic kind of optimism.
Let's get this part out of the way:

Monogamy is not something I can or want to do. I live with my partner, but we're non-monogamous and no, we're not using this site as a couple.

If you're okay with this, and/or want to be friends (because I'm also looking for more friends right now), read on.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
IV. enumerating.

V. asking you to join me on the dance floor.

ginger beer,
playing with words,
working with wordplay,
listening to/eating/dancing salsa...
dancing circles around other people.

finding my role in radical, queer, anti-racist, feminist networks.

For now, I'm working at your pricey local food co-op
but I still like to get lost in lost places.

I create storytelling projects. For a year or two, I made a new piece every week; a piece being a new performance involving myself and an instrument. Sometimes I make more exciting pieces with other musicians/performers. I'm currently working on creating a podcast. Ask me more about it. I'm always looking for folk interested in collaborating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You’ll ask about liminal states as we cross roads, dashing before headlights that drip from highways and spill across the tar as if hyper-luminescent beads of rain. I'll wonder if our conversations, like severed belts of film, ran for only brief segments of time and without cycle, whether they will be forgotten like the ad-space on the back of the unblinking billboard we passed towards our somewhere else miles back. Maybe this is just the slow wash of time...

...i get off-topic.

My gender and my darker than white skin. Do you really think it's my eyes? (I do have nice eyes, though).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
tldr: cool shit.

If you want to talk books/theory, hit me up.

things dealing with:
the philosophy of technology/bodies/science, culture,
feminist theory, queer theory, religion, magical realism,
speculative realism, magick, the black experience,
postmodernity, post-structuralism, and
theory-fiction. Afro-futurist ufology.
fighting codes of domination.

Shugo Tokumaru |Deerhoof |lhasa de sela | godspeed you! black emperor | Katie Jane Garside | Charles Mingus | Digable Planets | Omar Rodriguez Lopez| The Mars Volta | Zap Mama | Throbbing Gristle | Flying Lotus | Lila Downs | Jneiro Jarel | Luc Ferrari etc...

Reggio, Aronofsky, Fellini, Cocteau, Godard, Truffaut, Leone, Kubrick, Miyazaki, Katashurio Otomo, Malick, Tarkovsky, Kurosawa, Cronenberg, Deren, Brakhage, Lee...

seafood (pescatarian) | spicy foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you can't even begin to know something if you only have one point of view.

(Do you ever want to just become the partner of your dreams?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I geek out over contemporary philosophy, (information increases neither communication nor meaning. it only buries them under the luminosity of processing capabilities and ideologies of simulation) but i don't really take myself that seriously.

Unrelated bits:
-I've fasted for political and non-political reasons.
-I'm an atheist sympathetic to spirituality and i read tarot
-I often wonder about the re-invention of sexuality, gender, information.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I tend to value kind people, elusive cynical types, and the eccentric.

So be kind or make up for it. Also, don't be the grammar police. ( |

The more of the following, the better:
a)you're playful
b) you enjoy theory and/or art.
c)you have made with your life a world of enchantment,
and you want to enchant me a bit with that world.

d) wouldn't mind going out in public in gender discord

*be upfront. I hang out with people I'm attracted to, but I don't pursue everyone I hang out with. A lot of my closest friends are exes or current partners. Friendship is totally a viable option that I respect and value.