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oldowan

25 M Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:22am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Black, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have nostalgia for places that were never real.
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Alan Watts: “Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.”

I.
Born and raised in New Orleans, I have a childlike enthusiasm for festivity that doesn't come across in my online persona. My best outlet for it is hosting themed parties, and when I don't have that outlet, I spin words around each other.

My kind of optimism is post-apocalyptic... somewhere in between eschatology and abstract finger painting.

I tend to think representation is a con game, but we can try this anyway.

II.
Queer[ish].

sex positive | body positive | radical politics | enigmatic etcetcetc...
If you think we're going to be monogamous, you'll have a hell of a time wrestling me into that position.

I'm fluid and I'm attracted to ideas as well as people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
III.

ginger beer, etc.

etc:
protesting; ingesting: film,music, theory;
queering things;
ambivalence;
ambiguity;
reversing stations of power;
collecting constellations of
streetlights, between
improvisation
and divination;
playing with words;
working with wordplay;
flirting with ideas (both meanings)
Becoming that person
of my dreams .


Currently I'm creating storytelling projects. Most of it goes into a weekly performance involving myself and an instrument. I create a new piece every week and I'm looking for folk interested in collaborating.

I have a few larger projects in mind of varying degrees of commitment.

I also like listening to/eating/dancing salsa... dancing in general.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...you'll ask behind what doors (half-open or half-closed) will you find yourself. And if the floor is slanted and if the wood heavy at the hinges. You’ll ask of liminal states as we cross roads, dashing before headlights that drip from highways and spill across the tar as if hyper-luminescent beads of rain. I'll wonder if our conversations, like severed belts of film, ran for only brief segments of time and without cycle, whether they will be forgotten like the ad-space on the back of the unblinking billboard we passed towards our somewhere else miles back. Maybe this is just the slow wash of time...

...i get off-topic.


I play with gender.

My darker than white skin. Do you really think it's my eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
IV.
tldr: cool shit.

Forgive me this one indulgence...
If you want to talk books/theory, hit me up.

Anything by/on:
Jacques Ellul, Donna Haraway,
Marshall McLuhan, Erik Davis,
Jean Baudrillard, Paul Virilio
Beatriz Preciado
Barthelme, Sexton, Rumi, Lerner, Bergson, Berardi, Eggers, Virilio, Bolano, Sloterdijk, McCarthy, Kafka, Anton Wilson, Jensen, Graeber, Hurston, Ellison, etc.
things dealing with:
the philosophy of technology/bodies/science, culture,
feminist theory, queer theory, religion, magic realism,
magick, the black experience, postmodernity,
post-structuralism, and making
the ordinary extraordinary.
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music:
Shugo Tokumaru | Man man|Deerhoof | Meredith Monk| The Books | sufjan stevens| lhasa de sela | radiohead | nina simone | Meshell Ndgegeocello | godspeed you! black emperor | Geinoh Yamashirosumi | Alela Diane | Spires That In The Sunset Rise | Tool | Katie Jane Garside | Charles Mingus |King Crimson | Digable Planets | Crooked Still | Outkast | John lee hooker | Corey Harris |Tin Hat |Dirty Projectors| Lucky Dragons |Dorothy Ashby | Animal Collective | Prince | Omar Rodriguez Lopez| Erykah Badu | Gil Scott Heron | Saul Williams | Bowerbirds | Frontier Ruckus | Bama the Village Poet | Joe Frank | Little Wings | Vic Chestnutt | The Mars Volta | Zap Mama | Bowerbirds | | Nadja | Einsturzende Neubauten | Throbbing Gristle | Flying Lotus | Lila Downs | Jneiro Jarel | Luc Ferrari |Joanna Newsom etc...
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Film:
Reggio, Aronofsky, Fellini, Cocteau, Godard, Truffaut, Leone, Kubrick, Miyazaki, Katashurio Otomo, Malick, Tarkovsky, Kurosawa, Cronenberg, Deren, Brakhage, Lee...
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seafood (pescatarian) | spicy foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImaH51F4HBw
i'd rather create something new.
theory-fiction. Afro-futurist ufology.
fighting codes of domination.
\sexuality.gender.
Juxtaposition
constrast
collage
anti-power
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
V.
Given that information increases neither communication nor meaning, but buries such under the luminosity of processing capabilities and simulation ideologies...
I like to play around with philosophy, but i don't really take myself this seriously.

Good conversation starters for those who'd like 'em:
-I've fasted for political and non-political reasons.
-I'm an atheist sympathetic to spirituality who reads tarot
-You want to talk to me about the re-invention of sexuality, gender, information.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I tend to value kind people.
If you're not kind, you should be prepared to make up for it.

The more of the following, the better:
a)you're playful
b) you enjoy theory and/or art.
c) you can enjoy yourself with little money.
d)you have made with your life a world of enchantment,
and you want to enchant me a bit with that world.

e) you want to create something in spite of the law.
f) wouldn't mind going out in public in gender discord

*You get bonus points the more upfront you are. If I'm hanging out to you, I'm likely into ya. This actually gives us more time to flirt.