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26 Madison, WI Man, Genderfluid, Gender Nonconforming

Man, Genderfluid, Gender Nonconforming

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  • Ages 20–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
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Queer, Heteroflexible
Black, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly other
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Dropped out of university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have nostalgia for places that were never real.

(I'm moving to New Orleans in August)

(Alan Watts: “Trying to define yourself is like
trying to bite your own teeth.”)

I was born and raised in New Orleans. I'm guessing that's the reason I have a childlike enthusiasm for festivity. Sooner or later, you'll see it come out, especially if I'm hosting themed party.

What else am I enthusiastic about? Spinning words around each other, discovering new points of view, compelling media (music, film, literature), creating creative projects, and dancing (which is a creative projection of my body across a dance floor).

I'm a bit of an eccentric with basic to advanced social skills, depending on the day and how interested I am in the situation.

Think of me as optimistic in post-apocalyptic way (I'm actually touched by the way the musicians keep playing though the ship is sinking). Imagine something between eschatology and abstract finger painting...

Queer[ish]. I can like you regardless of sex-characteristics and my attitude and orientation towards my own gender isn't exactly mainstream.

radical politics | anti-racist | queer-feminist politics | etc.
If there's a cyborg-trickster politics out there. I'm for it, too.

I pretty much dig social justice and counter cultural networks.

If you think we're going to be monogamous, you're kinda wrong.

I'm fluid and I'm attracted to ideas as well as people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
III. enumerating.

ginger beer,
playing with words;
working with wordplay;

Currently I'm creating storytelling projects. Most of it goes into a weekly performance involving myself and an instrument. I create a new piece every week and I'm looking for folk interested in collaborating.

I have a few larger projects of varying degrees of commitment.

listening to/eating/dancing salsa... dancing in general... I will dance circles around you.

Did you ever want to just become the gal/guy/person of your dreams?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!'ll ask behind what doors (half-open or half-closed) will you find yourself. And if the floor is slanted and if the wood heavy at the hinges. You’ll ask of liminal states as we cross roads, dashing before headlights that drip from highways and spill across the tar as if hyper-luminescent beads of rain. I'll wonder if our conversations, like severed belts of film, ran for only brief segments of time and without cycle, whether they will be forgotten like the ad-space on the back of the unblinking billboard we passed towards our somewhere else miles back. Maybe this is just the slow wash of time...

...i get off-topic.

I play with gender.

My darker than white skin. Do you really think it's my eyes? (I do have nice eyes, though).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
tldr: cool shit.

If you want to talk books/theory, hit me up.

things dealing with:
the philosophy of technology/bodies/science, culture,
feminist theory, queer theory, religion, magic realism,
magick, the black experience, postmodernity,
post-structuralism, and making
the ordinary extraordinary.
^ seriously awesome stuff if you want to get into it.

Shugo Tokumaru | Man man|Deerhoof | Meredith Monk| The Books | sufjan stevens| lhasa de sela | radiohead | nina simone | Meshell Ndgegeocello | godspeed you! black emperor | Geinoh Yamashirosumi | Alela Diane | Spires That In The Sunset Rise | Tool | Katie Jane Garside | Charles Mingus |King Crimson | Digable Planets | Crooked Still | Outkast | John lee hooker | Corey Harris |Tin Hat |Dirty Projectors| Lucky Dragons |Dorothy Ashby | Animal Collective | Prince | Omar Rodriguez Lopez| Erykah Badu | Gil Scott Heron | Saul Williams | Bowerbirds | Frontier Ruckus | Bama the Village Poet | Joe Frank | Little Wings | Vic Chestnutt | The Mars Volta | Zap Mama | Bowerbirds | | Nadja | Einsturzende Neubauten | Throbbing Gristle | Flying Lotus | Lila Downs | Jneiro Jarel | Luc Ferrari |Joanna Newsom etc...
Reggio, Aronofsky, Fellini, Cocteau, Godard, Truffaut, Leone, Kubrick, Miyazaki, Katashurio Otomo, Malick, Tarkovsky, Kurosawa, Cronenberg, Deren, Brakhage, Lee...

seafood (pescatarian) | spicy foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
i'd rather create something new.
theory-fiction. Afro-futurist ufology.
fighting codes of domination.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Given that information increases neither communication nor meaning, but buries such under the luminosity of processing capabilities and simulation ideologies...
I like to play around with philosophy, but i don't really take myself this seriously.

Good conversation starters for those who'd like 'em:
-I've fasted for political and non-political reasons.
-I'm an atheist sympathetic to spirituality who reads tarot
-You want to talk to me about the re-invention of sexuality, gender, information. You have to probe me a bit with questions. I don't want to overdo it getting into these topics with people I don't know when I'm not even drunk yet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I tend to value kind people.
If you're not kind, you should be prepared to make up for it.

The more of the following, the better:
a)you're playful
b) you enjoy theory and/or art.
c) you can enjoy yourself with little money.
d)you have made with your life a world of enchantment,
and you want to enchant me a bit with that world.

e) you want to create something in spite of the law.
f) wouldn't mind going out in public in gender discord

*You get bonus points the more upfront you are. If I'm hanging out with you, I'm likely into ya. This actually gives us more time to flirt.