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41 F Tempe, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:17pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary

My profile is real. I am real - VERY real. I am not a scammer, prostitute, or a man and the photos are me and recent. I am 5ft7 and 145-ish lbs.

I loathe auto-racing. Nascar/Indy/Forumula1/Whatever. Yes, loathe. It seems many of you need to look up the definition of the word "loathe". Synonyms are abhor, hate, detest, and execrate.

Now that we have that out of the way...

I am looking for friends with like-minds. Eventually looking for that one friend for a long-term relationship that is simple...flows...jives...where there is mutual interest and time to receive and a consistent manner.

I am not in the East Valley area permanently, yet. I'll be there when my current house (in the SouthEast) sells.
UPDATE: estimated time of arrival = mid to late July 2014

That said, if you want to contact me to learn more, considering the above, please do. :) Not an ego trip or playing games, I just feel (again, the current circumstance) it would be best if you contact me if you are interested.

Enough about me. :)

YOU (as in allllll of the below applies to you as far as a lover goes :)

As far as a lover, I am not prepared to be in a relationship with children younger than "teen".
As far as a friend OR a lover, you have a brain and use your brain, NON-smoker, non or light-drinker, non-religious, single, 41 - 52 only, at least 5ft7(barefoot), not racist, not homophobic, no bravado (as in zero), not a fanatic or obsessed with professional/college spectator sports.

As far as the physical, I am pathetically attracted to mid-late 40s MEN with laugh lines/crows feet/wrinkles, "salt&pepper" hair - and facial hair. That said, a lone mustache is not attractive to me. And shaved heads can be nice, too.

No reply unless your profile is complete and you have clear, recent photos.
Please take no reply as a polite "not interested".
I’m really good at
If I told you, someone would have to kill you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Non-fiction books

All movies - documentaries, foreign and suspense thrillers are faves

The Amazing Race, SYTYCD, local PBS, Netflix and that's it.
(no cable or satellite)

NPR and Pandora only

No "Top-40". No radio. No modern-day rap. No country. No metal. A variety, but too much to list. I am a music snob and very comfortable with it. :)

Fresh, healthy and organic when possible. Nothing fried. Sweet Republic Basil Lime Sorbet.
The six things I could never do without
assuming food, water and air are a given...

warm/hot weather (sole reason for move to az. yes, really.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You. Yes, you.

Why the "Personality" tab on my profile is only partially correct.

But I spend most of my time thinking about well-being of my awesome, one-and-only, soon-to-be college-bound daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I am *willing* to admit? Hmmm. I wear men's deodorant. (?)
And, just like religion and politics, I do not wish to talk about our careers. I find those topics to be.....pretentious, for lack of a better word. Seriously, there are so many things to talk about. Why focus on those easy "Jones" topics? :)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 41–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're okay with my stated income being slightly off. [InsertOverExaggeratedWinkHere]

You're within 60miles of the Phoenix area.

You read all of my profile. You find we are compatible and compared our "the two of us" Q&A. Notably, our "Unacceptable Answers", although sometimes the "in the red" clearly isn't accurate.

You are not proudly holding beer, wine or liquor in your photos as if it is some type of lifetime achievement award.

You're truly content with the platonic just friends thing and my current location for the next 2-3 months.

Please take no reply as a polite "not interested".