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45 Minneapolis, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Chellooo....Let me say this first. Please keep the negativity away! Criticizing me for my looks, what i want, don't want, the hobbies i engage in, music i listen to, my friends or family....or how i write is WHO I AM. And i will never change. What can i say? I love ME.

What ever happened to "If you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all."

Anyway...hey! I hope while reading this finds you well. :))

Here we go…who am I? From Minneapolis. I have four daughters (two still at home) and two grandchildren. My hobbies include music, art and sports. I’m done with the club scene, but will check out a live band around town or see friends performing...spinning somewhere with a beer or glass of wine. There are a lot others things i like. Let's chat about it.

I am a full figured woman with an exceptional witty personality and extremely comfortable in my skin. I take care of business. (Own place, family, career and a beater for a car! It is going to die any day....LOL) I’m a bit of a social bee. Love a good conversation!

What I'm looking for? I've had a few years to figure that out.

Everyone say they are looking for a 'soul mate.' How do you define a successful relationship? A person who believes in establishing a meaningful friendship? Share similarities in interests, morals and values. Ever had someone you just VIBE with? Gain a meaningful friendship first? Simmer on the great qualities...accepting flaws that may come with. YES, we all have them! Those are some simple traits that seem to be a thing of the past. Have you ever been in a relationship where both sides never stop trying?

I've learned a lot from my past. Very selective of who i want on "Team-One" this time around. I do realize that "great men" still exist. I don't hold my past accountable for meeting new people at all.

I feel like i am a point in my life that realizes 'anyone is not for everyone.' It's OKAY to be incompatible with people you meet. So think about what you want, expect and be realistic. One thing i have learned from my internet ride can be anyone you want to be in the cyber world. I wish more people on here would write a nicely written profile...I read them all. Knowledge is key!

Good luck on your search for "pure bliss." R~
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm focused on my family, career and hobbies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
LISTENING to people. I like to analyze what other people think.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My witty personality, smirk..and how knowledgeable i am about MUSIC! Careful... :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No favorite books really. I like to read "top sellers." Current news events. them ALL if i can stand to stay awake through one. :) Food...Asian is my favorite...LOVE steamed veggies.

MUSIC...ah yes! Ey...a rhythm?? Nice flow?? I definitely will like it. I've been collecting music since a very young age. An eclectic taste, for sure. These days my iPod playlist includes...Tall Black Guy, Mark De Clive, Nicolay, Foreign Exchange, ATCQ, Slum Village, Freddie Joachim, Full Crate, DJ Cam, Nas, Pac, Cube, Dilla...Roy Ayers, Donald Byrd, Lonnie Liston smith, SOS Band, Loose Ends, Michael Wycoff, The Crusaders, Boney James, Marcus Miller, Harvey Mason, Evelyn Champagne King....the list is ENDLESS.

I am not a Music...critic, promoter, engineer, musician or DJ. I think i missed my calling. :(
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, career, music, all my senses, knowledge and friendships. Not in any order. All are equally important.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
MY LIFE...The past, present and future! How to "polish" myself...A relocation would be nice about now. My kids and their future. How crazy the world is and the people living in it...AMAZING.

Ummm....It's 2014...Why in the world is there soooo much hate in the world. One thing i know for SURE; I thank god for social media!! MAAAN....Without it, we wouldn't have the proof seeing through the true colors of some. Crazzyyy people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from work, settling kids for the weekend, at an AAU tournament in or out of state, good food and a movie, OR IN MY ELEMENT...Headphones, a glass of wine, and my all my money to Bandcamp, itunes, Amazon....etc. LOL
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can yodel, yup. :) haha...
You should message me if
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If you share similiar interests as i. Im not convinced that finding someone in MN is right for me, so im keeping my options open. If your talkin about sex, nude photos...what my "stats" are, or wanting a number on a first "web meeting?" I am not interested and don't expect a response. Sorry i wasted your time.

Sooo...if you are patient, can stand my wit? Start a friendship FIRST...By all means...Let's see if we gel...

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