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45 F Minneapolis, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Dont think outside the box. Think like there is no box... ;)

Hey! I hope while reading this finds you well. :))

Let me just say that I have seen and heard it all on here. The trophy pics with fish, guns to the fairytale promises to extensive want and needs lists. Mean muggin in every single picture. What's up with that. LOL. Have you ever thought that majority of the pics posted looked a bit creepy? One of the worst questions i have been asked is if my daughter is single? TRUST when i say...i will do my BEST to break your neck asking about my underage kids...smh. my soapbox.

Here we go…who am I? From Minneapolis. I have four daughters and two grandchildren. My hobbies include music, art and sports. For fun and/or on the bucket list – Walking, traveling, working out (I suck at this!) pool halls, Wine tastings, fishing, bowling, VIRTUAL CRATE DIGGING. (Very eclectic taste in music and definitely have an ear). I’m done with the club scene, but will check out a live band around town or see friends performing...spinning somewhere. A definite multitasking. In fact, ask me what I'm doing right now. :)

I am a full figured woman with an exceptional witty personality and extremely comfortable in my skin. I take care of business. (Own place, family, career and a beater for a car! LOL) I’m a bit of a social bee. Love a good conversation!

What I'm looking for? I've had a few years to figure that out.

Everyone say they are looking for a 'soul mate.' How do you define a successful relationship? A person who believes in establishing a meaningful friendship? Share similarities in interests, morals and values. Ever had someone you just VIBE with? Gain a meaningful friendship first? Simmer on the great qualities...accepting flaws that may come with. YES, we all have them! Those are some simple traits that seem to be a thing of the past. Look, if you got sense. I mean....normal sense of life, we will click right away no matter what. Have you ever been in a relationship where both sides never stop trying? Eventually, that's what i want. Build something everlasting. I've learned a lot and most definitely over my past. Very selective of who i want on "Team-One" this time around. I do realize that "great men" still exist. I don't hold my past accountable for meeting new people at all.

I feel like i am a point in my life that realizes 'anyone is not for everyone.' It's OKAY to be incompatible with people you meet. So think about what you want, expect and be realistic. One thing i have learned from my internet ride (YES, I've been on these sites for a minute) can be anyone you want to be in the cyber world.

I know a lot people frown on communicating through a computer. What's the rush? It has to start somewhere, right? I don't like to distribute my phone number to the world. In other words, i like to keep my list of contacts to a minimum.

Anyway, I wish more people on here would write a nicely written profile...I read them all! Knowledge is key!

Good luck on your search for "pure bliss." R~
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm focused on my family, career and hobbies
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
LISTENING to people. I like to analyze what other people think.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My witty personality, smirk..and how knowledgeable i am about MUSIC! Careful... :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No favorite books really. I like to read "top sellers." Current news events. them ALL if i can stand to stay awake through one. :) Food...Asian is my fav...LOVE steamed vegies.

MUSIC...ah yes! I've been collecting music since a very young age. An eclectic taste, for sure. These days my ipod playlist includes...Tall Black Guy, Mark De Clive, Oaklyn, Nicolay, FE, ATCQ, Slum Village, Modlee & Vlooper, Freddie Joachim, Full Crate, DJ Cam, DJ Kemit, Dilla...Roy Ayers, Donald Byrd, Lonnie Liston smith, Loose Ends, Michael Wycoff, The Crusaders, Harvey Mason, Evelyn Champagne King....the list is endless.

I am not a Music...critic, promoter, engineer, musician or DJ. I just love music period. Gets me through my every single day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, career, music, all my senses, knowledge and friendships. Not in any order. All are equally important.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
MY LIFE...The past, present and future! How to "polish" myself...A relocation would be nice about now. My kids and their future. How crazy the world is and the people living in it...AMAZING.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from work, settling kids for the weekend, at an AAU tournament in or out of state, good food and a movie, OR IN MY ELEMENT...Headphones, a glass of wine, and my all my money to Bandcamp, itunes, Amazon....etc. LOL
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can yodel, yup. :) haha...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you share similiar interests as i. Location does not matter...who says a companion can only be found in MN! If your talkin about sex, nude photos...what my "stats" are, or wanting a number at first sight? I am not interested and don't expect a response. Sorry i wasted your time.

SOOOO...if you are PATIENT, can stand my wit, willing to exchange notes...start a FRIENDSHIP FIRST...By all means...Let's GO!