"Black Women Are For Grownups."
Unfortunately ones age does not guarantee one is a grownup.
If you're not a grownup, no shade, but no thanks.
I am smart/quick, kind/intuitive, and fun/silly.
I like the idea of a lot of things.
It's very likely I am taller than you. If not, it's likely I'll want to kiss you - if for nothing more than to look up while doing so.
I think fast - usually. I’m slightly impatient. Definitely emotional, and an unpredictable dichotomy of shy and assertive. I love laughing & food & dogs. I am a night owl. Really beautiful stuff makes me cry. A witty banter turns me on.
but that food, tho....
vietnamese, japanese, korean, bistro, high-end cheeseburgers, low-end cheeseburgers, arugula, beets, mushrooms, chocolate, salt, potatoes, heirloom tomatoes, cheese, butter lettuce, balsamic vinegar, sriracha rooster sauce, fish, crispy brussel sprouts, plantain, rice, seasame, ice cream... this could go on forever. corndogs...
*At times I indulge in bouts of VEGANISM just to torture myself.
you're open: hearted, minded, spirited.
you’ll happily kiss for hours.
you're passionate about something other than your profession.
you know how to listen and engage.
you love food, both high-end and low-end.
you’re looking to laugh, hard.
you actually like people and are empathetic towards humanity.
you don’t find tv viewing offensive.
you’re generous in all areas, especially with your affection.
you ask questions.
i’m newish to the East Coast and you’re interested in either discovering or exposing me to its wonders.
you’re not afraid of a big personality and all it entails.
lastly, you're tall - no, seriously - 6ft+, kind, smart & hilarious.
these are just a few of the things off the top of my head that I am looking for in the person at my side.
If you're not into it, kick rocks.