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omarley

30 / F / bisexual / Available

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am torrid, insatiable, and ardent.

My Self-Summary

First: I'm polyamorous (google it) and married. If still interested, pls continue reading!

I'm a goober, airhead, redhead, heathen, pierced, tattooed, horror-loving, bookworm, kinky, geek-girl, hippy-chick, bisexual, freak girl. My decisions in life are based strictly on my own level of selfishness, and yes, I'm quite serious. I tend to do as I please, unless my actions will hurt myself or another. So... to sum myself up, I am a brazen hussy. A floozy, a brat, a tramp, a girl you don't take home to meet mom and pop.

Hair dye is an addiction. See photos. At this time, I’m trying desperately to at least present a vague appearance of normal by keeping my tresses their natural strawberry blonde. The results are entertaining: Scully with facial piercings (or if you’d prefer, Punk Tiffany)

Must love: redheads, spontaneity, blunt honesty, road trips, piercings, curves, being assertive, reading, driving & navigating, playing, water (IE: steam, rain, baths/showers, sports [water skiing, swimming, beach bumming, etc], aquariums, so forth & so on), touching, flirting

I love: geeks, hands, honesty, dry humour, playfulness, long hair, flirting, touching, the ability to chat into the wee hours of the morning, creative minds, passion, ingenuity, gypsies, adventure, kissing, playfulness, strong arms, polyamory

I loathe: arrogance, racism, the inability to communicate, mullets, openmouthed chewing, super cold weather & most winter sports, testosterone punks, worrying

All of this nonsense said, I must admit that I can be a bit of a challenge to engage at first. Once I've warmed to a person, you'll not be able to shut me up (Be Prepared Tip #1: bring duct tape).

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What I’m doing with my life

Were I able to, I'd attend university for a bachelor of nursing degree, then travel in the Peace Corps as a nurse, upgrade my schooling to specialize as an OR Nurse then travel with Doctor's Without Borders.

This has changed over the years, and my last "what I want to do with my life" edit involves travelling the DRC (Congo Africa) and treating the survivors and victims of rape.

Sadly, the Peace Corps will not allow for my Canadian family (I'm American). This realization is what brought me to seek other adventures, but my main goal of becoming a nurse is still in sight, regardless of which Proper Noun I'm travelling with.

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I’m really good at

Being a catalyst, speaking my mind, putting my foot in my mouth (repeatedly) and always knowing just when to say the wrong thing. It's a talent, really! Usually *someone* ends up laughing!

The first things people usually notice about me

Piercings. I have many.

Please don't ask (in regards to piercings or tattoos): Did that hurt? Does that go through the bone?

My bright red hair. It has been almost every shade under the sun in the past, but I'm working towards ending my hair dye addiction. Really. I can stop anytime I want to.

Eschatological: What I noticed is that omarley is a unique, independent person. There is a lot going on inside her head. She is a creative, powerful force.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Faithful Elephants (Yukio Tsuchiya) Outlander Series (Diana Gabaldon) Callahan's Series (Spider Robinson) Myth Series (Robert Asprin) Taltos Series (Steven Brust) Kushiel's Series (Jacqueline Carey)

Movies: Deeply, Lost and Delirious, Never Ending Story, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, The Life of David Gale, I am Sam, Princess Bride

The six things I could never do without

"Never" is such a restrictive word! Aside from the basics (food, water, shelter):

My two best friends. Someone to navigate (I sure can't!). Freedom. Literacy. Modern medicine. The ability to communicate.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The impact of perspective on our daily social interactions, how critical we are of others, and the power of suggestion. The Oxford Comma.

On a typical Friday night I am

Board games, computer games, card games (Poker, Cribb), sex games? Guitar Hero! Do those count?

Movies. Usually the free sort that pops up on this box that is in my livingroom.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I adore women. I crave female companionship, although I don't have the slightest idea how to approach women without tripping over my own tongue.

However, having said that, I also can not have a purely sexual relationship with another female (like I can with males). I enjoy the soft, romantic lovemaking that curls your toes and sends one into a state of bliss for days.

You should message me if

You should msg me if you're poly too!