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27 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 31
5' 2" (1.57m)
Post grad
My self-summary
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Sometimes I'm bleached blonde, sometimes I'm a brunette, depends on the time of year.

I'm British. Not the Downton Abby kind, but think more Lock Stock and Snatch. I'm part gypsy, part royalty.

I read tarot cards.

I'm a terrible cook, but that doesn't stop me from throwing a mean dinner party.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a psychotherapist at a Queer Counseling Agency, if you're one of my clients reading this, therapists need to date too you know!

I drink a lot of coffee, read a lot of books, and try make it to yoga in the spaces in-between.

I play the fiddle when feeling particularly inspired and the house is empty, I have no natural talent at it, so try to spare the roommates hearing the same tune on repeat.

My undergrad was studio arts, I used to identify as a painter, however I don't paint much these days, other than small water colors in the park when it's sunny.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fort Building. They are bad ass.

Banana pancakes. Sometimes with chocolate chips.

Talking. I'm a therapist, communication is vital to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent.

I'm from North East London England, but have been in the States for 9 years, so my accent is something of a mix between British and Californian.

It throws people off when they first meet me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-bell hooks! The HandMaids Tail, Stone Butch Blues, The Blind Assassin, Zami A New Spelling Of My Name, Fun Home, Gender Failure, Gypsy Boy, Even Cowgirls Get The Blues,
-Cloud Atlas, The Boat that Rocked, Submarine, Little Miss Sunshine, Benny and Joon, Thelma and Louise
-sense 8,
-Yacht, Little Dragon, Cat Power, Metric, Talking Heads
Spoken Word
-Andrea Gibson
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My Bed.
- Delicious morning coffee.
- Dark Chocolate.
- My brown boots, that I call my pippi longstocking boots :)
- My book collection
- My brother who constantly saves my ass and prevents me from losing it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Psychology. I'm psychoanalyzing myself. I'm psychoanalyzing you.

I'm thinking how can I challenge the status quo of capitalism or patriarchy or the heteronormative hegemonic paradigm...

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Any given night there's a dinner party at my house, which turns into drinking wine by the fire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have opposing desires.
One, to be a dyke on a bike.
The other, not to die.

For now I'm on a bicycle, but I really truly want to learn how to ride a motor bike.
You should message me if
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If you got this far down the page, you might as well message me to say hi, who knows, we might become best friends, lovers, or at the very least awkward acquaintances?