.work in progress.
(self and profile)
If you under 30, please understand, we will only ever be friends. I'm totally open to friendship. :)
American living in NZ for 5-1/2 years. Moving back to LA in about 5 -6 weeks. ... so heaps on, going into prep for this -- please be openminded if I can't/don't respond straight away. I do read all my messages eventually. :) And, I do appreciate any efforts, Thank you :)
Curiouser and curiouser... and then curiouser some more.
Admittedly, I am embarrassingly geeky, and generally attracted to the like. Regarding previous sentence: no, I'm not really embarrassed. ;)
I am a myriad of contradictions, complexities and passions.
Very abstract. I also find myself entirely non-linear. Innately rebellious.
Sapiosexual. I would normally cringe at putting this in a profile (hand to god --- I don't believe in) ;) -- I'm smart as hell. Please. Please. Don't send me unintelligent correspondence. I will shudder and pass it by... and plenty of intelligent people are guilty of this (myself included). So, please have intention if you're going to reach out. If you say "Hey!" or something thereabouts, I'll likely ignore the message. Sorry! Just too many clever men on this site, and in the ... you know ...real world! They may not have six-pack abs, but that isn't what I'm looking for... Also, please look up Sapiosexual before you message me and ask what it means. ;)
OkC really struggled to upload my second album pics... they are all --very beautifully -- high res, but uploaded super blurry which is really a shame. Ugh, c'est la vie.
I've been on OkC for a few years and have received many mails (I'm being kind here... there have been thousands). The thing is, I'm very selective about the people I allow into my life, and I am not looking for trivial partnerships. I've met a total of 4 people on this site, out of thousands of mails. I've 'dated' 2 of these (both ended up being fairly significant relationships). I'm very selective. I guess what I've gathered of myself in this process, is that I'm not interested in casual relationships. It just isn't my thing. I mean, I wish it was, but it's not. It's just not. I am a single mother, to a 5 year old -- amazing -- child. I have a very happy, complete, and full life. I have my own life. It's mine. I like that. I like owning my own life. I'm interested in sharing my interests, passions, love, and time with another, but I'm very selective. I am not looking for a father for my child -- she has one. I'm not looking to be taken care of. I can do that on my own. I am interested in a life partner -- somebody that compliments my life, that I can share life with (and I do mean life's great ups and downs, because life does have both!), that I can grow with, and learn with. I am looking for something real. Time-Bending real. I don't really care to waste time with anything other. I guess, I am writing this, to weed out the "Hey, sexy" messages, I'm not interested in that. What I am interested in, is a partnership with a person that -- at this time -- doesn't seem to exist on this little rock we call Earth. If he does exist, I know that I will make him endlessly happy, and likewise. That is what I am looking for. :) That would be very nice. :)