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oncedavey

47 M Orange, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:06pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.94m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a tad geeky at 47 yo, have my lovable quirks, more down to earth, and I own who I am.

I was born and raised in Orange County, love my job, enjoy my life, have a positive outlook on things, and in search of Mr. Right.

I'm a father of four, ages 13-21, whom three live with me 100% of the time. They are awesome kids. Proof positive gay fathers are awesome! If you decide to say hi know that I do talk about my kids as my world revolves around them. Yes, I do have time and would love to date a man as I believe eventually the right partner would complete my world!

Because of family commitments (and money, let me tell you kids aren't cheap!), my traveling consists of overnight trips. Palm Springs, San Diego, Long Beach, Big Bear, etc. I make it a point to get out of town once a month. I prefer places where you park the car at the hotel and explore everywhere on foot.

I am a teacher, a tech lover, enjoy short hikes, a glass of wine, researching family history, cooking, gardening (although seriously my yard needs a lot of help!), photography, and good conversations with friends.

Communication is the key. I'm not looking for on the hour reports but I think daily communication is a healthy thing in a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working in the always changing world of Education Technology. Trying to figure out how to establish more of a presence in my field without moving up in administration. I'm more of a behind the scenes guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
At work its what tie are you wearing today?? I have a large collection of ties because its fun to wear new and different ones. I have bow, vintage, skinny, bright, holiday, etc.
Ok, seriously, its my height!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I'm a 70s and 80s music lover (Thank God for Sirius Radio!) including 80s country music. With unlimited data on my iPhone and iTunes match I am music contented to have all my songs at my finger tips where ever I go.
My music tastes really runs all over. Last greatest hits albums purchased include the Bangles, Anne Murray, The Who, Stevie Wonder, Richard Marx, Styx, Plain White Ts, and Don Henley. I do enjoy current groups as well such as Neon Trees, Lady Gaga, She & Him, Thirty Seconds to Marts, No Doubt, Avril Lavigne, Pink, Fun, Imagine Dragons and Krewella. Go figure!
Not a huge movie goer anymore. I do get to the theater from time to time but if its a date I prefer something more active where we can talk. Chances are I have not seen all the Oscar nominated movies. I prefer a good book or reading the news on the net. Favorite authors include Sue Grafton (working on W is for Wasted right now), Martha Grimes, Piers Anthony, Alan Dean Foster.
The six things I could never do without
1. My kids!
2. Gotta have my tech gadgets
3. A good book to read (I love tech but need that paper in my hands for a good story)
4. Family and friends
5. Laughter
6. Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I try not to think too much. Gets me in trouble!
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as a typical Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am shy, not as much 1 to 1, but in large groups of unknown people.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 37–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Love to chat and say hi, but please have your age correct and your current pics within the last year. Sorry but trust begins with being who you are now. As my friend tells me, own the person you are.