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54 San Ramon, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 17
Asian, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Thx for taking a moment to learn a little bit about me. I’m at a great place in my life and I'm ready to meet my special man. My highest values include integrity in all areas of my life; passion for the people and endeavors that I'm committed to; and health in mind, body, and spirit. My favorite activities include: music, dancing, snow skiing, hiking, home decorating, traveling, meditation, kayaking, whitewater rafting, daytrips / weekend getaways, and spending time with my college aged kids. Community is very important to me and I regularly nurture my personal and professional relationships. I'm very much at peace and genuinely excited about this time in my life. I'm fun-loving and energetic and I look forward to sharing my life with a quality man whose interests and values are compatible with mine.

I love to learn and try new things (venues, adventures, cuisine). My guy and I will share the miraculous, as well as the mundane of daily life. We'll continually expand each other's horizons, allowing both space for personal time and togetherness through activities we both enjoy. I appreciate a man who is self aware and actively pursuing personal growth; a true partner who doesn't "need" me, yet wants me with all his heart.

Our relationship will be a living example of integrity, respect, passion, shared dreams, teamwork, and profound love. We'll enjoy the simple pleasures in life along with great abundance in many forms. Our commitment will be enduring and our joy in each other a true inspiration to everyone we meet.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professionally, I'm an entrepreneur, having a great time as a consultant and trainer helping organizations create healthy, happy work environments that bring out the best in people.

My personal mission is to be the best I can be. To live a life of integrity, passion, wisdom, and health. To be a consistently positive influence in all encounters with the universe. To continually evolve in alignment with spirit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Positive thinking
*Learning / growing / exploring / trying new things
*Creating comfortable places and spaces
*Seeing the opportunity / gift in unexpected turns of events
*Parallel parking
The first things people usually notice about me
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*High energy
*Big smile
*Lotz of interests
*Boisterous laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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*Books on personal development, success, spirituality, healthy living
*Non-fiction by authors like Malcolm Gladwell, Jack Canfield, Eckart Tolle, Stephen Covey, Marci Shimoff, John Gray
*Movies with unique story concepts and strong characterizations
*All kinds of music including classic rock, soft rock, jazz, mystical instrumental, 80's rock for dancing
*Love live theater and entertainment, concerts, comedy clubs, sports, festivals, even mimes
*Very eclectic taste in food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*Constant learning
*A positive attitude
*My son and daughter
*Supportive community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Appreciation for the many blessings I enjoy and how to create the life of my dreams.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*At the movies
*Dancing with a group of friends
*Attending a weekend workshop / seminar on personal development, success in business, spiritual retreat
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm ambidextrous with chopsticks.
You should message me if
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You are a man of high integrity who knows who you are, what you want, where you're going, and has some idea about how you're going to get there. If you have a mission for your life, confidence and competence to make your dreams come true and a bit of flair for fun and romance, I'll find you irresistible.