Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I know what magic feels like. And I know that it isn't created out
of hand. It takes just a couple of fingers to count the number of
people that I have loved in my life. And they are the ones that are
important to me regardless of what place they hold in my life right
And I know I can't try and force that. By most standards I tend to
move pretty slowly, but it's really all about the connection for
me. That may be something that starts as a friendship or a simple
attraction, but in the end I'm looking for substance.
If reading this makes you feel slightly uncomfortable, know that it
does me as well. I've tried the "lets have sex and see if we're
compatible" thing and it always leaves me feeling like I've gone to
a place of emotional intimacy that was premature. The words
premature and sex just never seem to go together well.....
Sex for me is an emotional act. It takes some investment....and
time. I feel like I'm in the minority, but after trial and lots of
errors, that's, well let's just say that's how I roll....
Getting a cat out of a tree or helping a little old lady across the
street is sexy to me......of course if you're doing it as a hairy
chested man wearing a harness, so much the better. Hey, it could
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've had nine lives already. Working on the tenth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm the MacGyver of the kitchen. I have a gift for taking whatever
is in the fridge/cupboards and making something edible out of it.
As far as favorite foods I'm an adventurist -as long as it's fresh
and well prepared I'll probably like it.
Music....I'm all over the place. If someone stole my Ipod they
would think someone with multiple personalities owned it. Latin pop
music is the music of choice at the moment. I can't understand a
word but it all sounds so passionate.
I don't have cable so I just tend to watch Hulu when I'm in the
mood. Vampire Diaries is a guilty pleasure.
Fav movie....it always comes back to The Princess Bride.
Favorite books. Hmmm.... Reading The Power of Habit, Christopher
Isherwood Lost Years, oh and the cookbook simply called Meat by
Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall. Random, yes. Anything by E.M. Forster.
Poetry by Paul Monette. A Quaker Book of Wisdom. Things by Anne
Lamotte - I give Operating Instructions to every pregnant woman I
know. Dream Boy by Jim Grimsley is such a tender heartbreaking love
story. Art books, design books, random books I find for free, books
that make me think about something that I never thought I'd have an
interest in, pop up books are incredible, books that feel good in
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The ability to see what's in front of me.
The ability to choose six things I could never do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
well.....obviously not what to put here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home after work making dinner, maybe watching a movie and getting
ready for work the next day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm a pretty private person : )
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