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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I like the extremes of the thought provoking and the profanely mindless. And I'd like to find a woman that I find attractive, intelligent, and quirky and funny in her own way, to do interesting things and absolutely nothing with. The idea of trying to impress a woman seems a little less than genuine, instead of just being me and seeing what happens. There's nothing perfect about me, so if you're looking for Prince Charming, hit skip...
What I’m doing with my life
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no clue. you?
I'm in a space of figuring a lot out, experiencing a lot of change, and taking better care of myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
words. anyplace but here.
My work is helping people explain things, usually in writing. I like the challenge of getting to the point and I prefer fewer words.

listening. a lost art.
It's kind of cool when you really do it.

cooking. non-professional.
I'm no chef, but I pick and execute recipes pretty well. Then I get to eat it.

painting. the boring kind.
But I find it very satisfying. I have a few spots to revisit.

Giving people a hard time without crossing the line.

makin stuff up.
I do that for a living too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a wise ass - my NYer comes out. I am not tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Walker Percy - all of em. Cormac McCarthy. Some Michael Ondatje. T.C. Boyle.
Wilco. Lou Reed / Velvet Underground. Marc Ribot y Los Cubanos Postizos. Black Keys. Hanni El Katib. Pete Doherty/Libertines/Babyshambles. Aretha. Beach Boys.
Raging Bull. Snatch. Super 8. Wanted.
Louie. The Killing. Walking Dead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've always loved the idea of escape, like being stranded on a desert island. If that happened, I'd like to have some things with me. Music. Fire. Coffee. Knife. Pencil. Paper.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The motorcycle i'm going to build when i learn how to build motorcycles.
The song I would sing if I had that magic ability.
What I want to do differently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's not Friday. Couldn't tell ya.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have never worn a beanie. Nor do I plan to.
You should message me if
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you're so bored you're thinking about pulling your hair out. and you really like your hair. so that would be kind of tragic.