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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Mar 8, 2014
5' 8" (1.73m)
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My self-summary
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Working on it!
What I’m doing with my life
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Drafting a profile at the moment. It may, in fact, take a lifetime. So far I have it down to: 1/3 work. 1/3 yoga, 1/3 personal. And add improving my high school French to more " I can order food and ask where the bathroom is" French. Thanks to Duolingo. And by the way, that Duolingo owl is a bully if you do not practice daily.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most things. Well, like cooking, fashion, architecture - the usual. But mostly just listening, figuring things out, and generally discussing anything I can chime in on with any modicum of knowledge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The eyes. Then the smirk. Then the braces (which turns out to be some sort of grade school fantasy turn on for them. ( And yet does not effect any sort of intimacy)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Obsessed with reading during this freezing Spring (ok, now it is fall, but..). Bill Bryson "At Home", Jared Diamond "Collapse", "House of Stone", "That Woman", Edmund White, Isherwood, "Hedy's Folly", and "I see Rude People". Oh, there's more. My Kindle is full.

Food: It's all Nigella Lawson all the time. And Suzanne Goin.

Music currently on rotation: Magnetic Fields, Zola Jesus, Andrew Bird, Ayo, Estelle, The Noisettes, Thom Yorke, Gotye, Ruthie Foster, The Astroids Galaxy Tour, Charlotte Gainsbourg, The Shins, Tune-Yards, Little Dragon. The list keeps growing thanks to KCRW.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, cherry chapstick, Burberry Prorsum, meditation, my toothbrush, amusement.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next step.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing something with someone. Eating somewhere. Finishing a book or class. Learning something. Listening to something. Writing a thank you note. Or just heading home to stuff a pork roast in the oven.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You may ask. And I may tell.
You should message me if
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If want to say hello. Meet up for a chat. Or just make a new friend. I am not here for one time hook ups. My sheets are too good for that.