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  • Ages 18–26
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My details

Last online
May 26, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am bisexual and disabled. I stutter and am on the Autism Spectrum. I am an activist/scholar in the area of Disability Studies and am working to actively challenge pervasive ableist devaluation of disabled bodies.

Being creative is very important to me. I actively draw. I write poetry. I blog.

I get very excited by discussions of critical theory, politics, ethics, spirituality, philosophy and art. If you are not ready to have such discussions often, I may not be the right person for you to spend time with.

I do like being physically active, but it is not a priority. I am a lazy scholar. A good day is spent reading and writing with a little walking.

I do participate in popular culture, but to a limited extent.
Call me a hipster all you want. Most television gets very annoying. I am addicted to the internet, hopelessly. I love music and concerts, though I do not go to concerts as much as I'd like to.

My worldview is heavily a combination between spirituality and sociological analysis. I tend toward cultural explanations when in doubt. I am mystified by spirit and never use it to explain anything. I just feel it.

I am creative, perserverant, and discombobulated.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm attending UIC and seeking a Master of Science in Disability Studies and Human Development . I want to be a professor, but if I don't succeed, I'm going to look into working as a medical transcriptionist or at a nonprofit. As noted above, my identity as a disabled person is very important to me. I am interested in getting a PhD in Sociology or another social scientific discipline.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
poetry, conversations, Critical Theory, suffering, surviving, drawing, being a student, being indecisive, being generally creative, writing, reading, analysis.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a skinny wierdo who is socially awkward but has funny and entertaining ideas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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music by genre:

Jazz- Coltrane, Charlie Parker, Davis, The Jazz Messengers, The Bad Plus

Punk Rock- NOFX, Rise Against, Defiance Ohio, Propaghandi, Mischief Brew, Johnny Hobo, Anti Flag

Post Rock- God is an Astronaut, Explosions in the Sky, Emancipator, Hammock,

Electronic- Dada Life, Afrojack, Shpongle, Nero, Deadmaus, Mt. Eden, Zed's Dead, 12th Planet

Any Beat Writer. Literary Theory (mention a postmodern theorist when talking to me and get extra points!), numerous different kinds of poetry, fiction- cyber punk (Gibson..etc), random books I find in the library

food: Anything. Except for peanuts and celery.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my laptop
2. books
3. green burnt offerings
4. salsa
5. my cellphone
6. honey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All things Creative. Marxian Theory, Feminist Theory, Race Theory, Foucault, Existentialism, Disability Theory, Epistemology and Ontology. Food.

My physical surroundings. The sky. The street. The abandoned train tracks outside my window. Whatever is outside the closest window.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Smiling with a friend or two after working on various homework and projects all day. Usually listening to Jazz or Nas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a deadhead.

And I have been dreaming for some time of shaving my legs and trying on a skirt.
You should message me if
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your creative, open-minded, interested in romance, intelligent,
and live in Chicago. Also, if your involved in the military, please don't message me. I won't respond.

People who live further than I can travel should not message me. I have never had a license. My ability to get to your location is important for our relationship. If you are the one driving to me, I will never feel on equal footing.