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48 / M / straight / Single

Cape Town, South Africa

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I am [[happy]], [[chilled]], and [[kind]].

My Self-Summary

I am relaxed, at peace with myself and have little baggage. I am very loyal and caring to those I love. And I am very aware how lucky I am to be living in South Africa, and particularly in Cape Town!

What I’m doing with my life

I work for myself, usually part-time. I work to live, not the other way round. I'm not always rich, but I have lots of fun!

I’m really good at

Listening, socialising, computers, general knowledge, tequila

The first things people usually notice about me

Eyes

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Lots of books, but especially Lord of the Rings, Neil Gaiman, Matt Ruff, Iain M Banks.

Cult movies: Death Race 2000, revenge of the killer tomatoes, bad taste movies generally

African music, esp SA; rock; reggae

Mexican food

The six things I could never do without

friends
books
quite time on my own
animals
new stuff to learn
hugs (I'm a touch junkie)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

friends, books, my dogs ...

On a typical Friday night I am

Socialising with friends, or quiet at home

You should message me if

You are relaxed and happy and kind and want a simple, uncomplicated, chilled relationship / friendship