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onlykando

26 New London, CT Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name's Kando.
I'm zen and smile, and kind of a goonie.

I'm trying to connect with quirky people intimately, all forms. There's no quantative goal really. I have a loving passion and curiosity about humanity; I think it makes me something of a taoist. More or less, I'm quirky too and I'm busy being a guy; not a manchild or a machismo, not a slob or a pickle.

I doodle during meetings at work and
I make faces at kids if I go to the store.
I think I am that guy, but I like that guy.

I left the details for future conversations;
I'm not into listing myself — I'm an onion.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to write poetry where I can.

When I clean my house, it's with loud music,
dancing with the blinds up in my underwear.

I play board games with friends; it's all in good fun,
but I'm a competitive sort. I'm big fan of netrunner,
and more social games like Pictionary and Concept.

I maintain plants which I will never know how well I'm taking care.
I think they're happy though, in a New England home sort of way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Silly. Serious is just something I have to be, until I can be silly again.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hear I'm gregarious.

I hear more often than I'd think that
I have a bone structure for sketches;
and I also hear that I'm comfortable.
That last bit is what I most strive for.

I was once described as acidic and welcoming;
much like a fresh orange without rinds or peel.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
If you go home with somebody, and they don't have any books ...
-John Waters

I am into art house and cheeseball-wholesome flicks;
an electric folk revival with basstones, south park and
fresh cut fries with wild burgers. I have a sweet tooth;
less the presentation and more the feel. I can make a
sweet potato curry naan-pizza as an occasional treat,
and also farm-ish meatless lasagna or tangy gorditas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've got a real appreciation for open space and natural light,
so I live in an apartment loaded with skylights and greenery.

Someday I might try for a live in greenhouse,
with its earthy warmth and its green ceilings
and white lit-up walls — it sounds liberating.

Still, these are a few of my favorite things:
scent: tarragon.
feel: sitting on people's butts.
taste: chocolate salted pretzels.
sight: the rusty glow of streetlamps.
sound: crystal castles.
extra: a secret place I found in Donostia.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social norms. I enjoy, to no small degree,
committing would-be harmless faux pas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
bumping fenders to make a tight parallel park.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I enjoy .. themed parties. They always make a glowing lush of me.
I don't even know what the allure is; I get excited and everything.
It's like everyone's playing pictionary, but their body is the paper.

I own – and obviously utilize hunky men pillow cases
which were a joke gift I still pretend to take seriously.

I lined up quite a few text blocks so far. I'll totally stop

I'm not meeting with people with one-night stands in mind. I've had plenty of lovely and amazing meet-ups with really awesome people, but I meet with people when it seems like we'll have the chemistry and the comfort and the click to easily want to see each other again.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can laugh at yourself sometimes. That says enough about someone I'd be cool with meeting; it's about having charm without all the caked-on grace. No guarantees, but it's what I'm striving for.