Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So I actually live outside of Seattle but work takes me to Seattle
each week usually for an overnight. So I'm looking to make
connections with people who are available generally midweek. So
there's my disclaimer now talk amongst yourselves.
I am a happily married and in a healthy relationship that
the possibility of intimacy with others. This is not new and
approach it ethically and openly with my S/O and all is well
that front. I am an educated discrete professional type who
being active outdoors, by land and by sea.
I ride my bike as much as I can, both for getting around town
on nice long rides wherever. i also love to be on the water as
as i can, either sailing or paddling.
That all sounds so technical, but its important to get that
out there. So I am seeking connections with people who "get
with the whole open relationship thing, and want to have a
connection, do fun stuff, be mellow, be crazy, and feel some
I am still not sure about putting up photos and of what sort
the smallish nature of the world and the general society at
views about monogamy vis a vis being married.
no grasias, my espanol is muy mal.
I am witty, adventerous, and co-op shopper
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i am working to make the world a better place and trying to live
life fully and richly along the way. Making connections with
kindred spirits, building a great community of friends. I love to
explore the natural world and love to connect with other thinking
and unconventional people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spatial relations and estimating quantities of all kinds of stuff
quickly and cleaning up as I cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would like to say its my disarming smile, my Chacko tan lines,
the iphone that is somewhere on my person, but i now live in the
shadow of mesmerizingly cute toddlers who most have a hard time
seeing past, including me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read the Sun, Harpers, and the Sustainable Industries Journal
cover to cover almost every month, well I try to at least. As for
food, I mostly consider myself a lacto-ovo-prosciutto vegetarian,
but in reality these days I basically eat birds freely and without
remorse. I never could completely give up really good Italian meats
in very small high quality doses even when I was fairly strict in
I am an NPR junkie and listen to on the media, Radiolab, and this
American Life every week via podcast. I also love Selected Shorts,
and To the Best of our Knowledge. I could go on but I don't want to
embarrass myself for being TOO much of an NPR junkie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a boat, tools, a loving secure relationship, a strong community of
friends, adventure and exploration, amazing food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about human culture and what makes
people tick especially in terms of sex and relationships, being on
the water, planning for the future in various forms and trying to
be uber-present simultaneously. I think endlessly about my paid
work and my volunteer work which in my mind is hard to distinguish
sometimes. Its all just my work, some of which i get paid for and
some i don't. I don't spend too much time worrying about which is
which and luckily I am able to just do what needs doing and the
money has always followed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who has typical Friday nights? I seek to have variety in my Friday
nights, but I could be found out in my kayak in the moonlight,
watching some indie movie or another, making dinner with friends or
out for a walk in the neighborhood just to name a few. With two
little monkeys in the house it's either relaxing after they go to
bed or out in the town with my red hot smokin wife if we have
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been refilling the same shampoo bottle at the Coop since
You should message me if
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You are a intelligent person who lives your life richly and
especially if you are a sorta hippie-geeky-active-independent
irreverent playful person with integrity. I am espcially interested
in hearing from others who are currently in some form of open LTR.
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