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56 F Smithfield, ME

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Graduated from masters program
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My self-summary
Creative yet pragmatic.
Artist, Designer, and Writer -- satisfying one side of my brain;
Job Search Consultancy -- employs the other aspect of my sensibility.

I'm an ardent environmental activist.
I'm a realist who believes it wise to look forward toward a more sustainable lifestyle.
Fun + funny, I attain balance with laughter.

I've traveled a fascinating road to arrive at a juncture of genuine internal happiness within the context of troubling times. Thankfully, I satisfied my wanderlust before we measured the carbon footprints of air travel.
Where I once thrived in urban contexts, I now feel most alive in the midst of natural surrounds and quietude.

I dare to dream of a man with whom to take sweet refuge . . . that we may coalesce with integrity and humour, learn from one another and together; and give/receive love unconditionally.
and share a holistic lifestyle.

I derive great pleasure from organic gardening, and I'm learning to can (as in put-up food). I've an interest in beekeeping and chickens. I view food as medicine for both body and soul, as well as a point of focus for community building. Community is integral to living well. I practice yoga (down-levelled to restorative in recovering from injury), meditate and love bucolic country walks to forage medicinal + edible herbs, swimming in fresh water, canoeing, snowshoeing, art / indie films, and hunkering down with a good book, a fine man, and my 2 rescue puppies.

Having traded in the city life to become a country mouse, I enjoy jaunts to the city for theater, ballet, opera, art exhibitions and ethnic food.

I am completely feminine and enjoy a manly man. Of a gentle manner and compassionate nature, I seek the same in a partner.

Most compatible would be a man who will never lose that gleam in his eye that bespeaks a joie de vivre. I seek discourse both dreamy and provocative.

To be together and forget the world; to stand together and deal with the world . . .
What I’m doing with my life
Writing a book, actually two . . .

Recently launched a Resumé Writing and Job Search Consulting Firm.

EcoFemme bespeaks my lifestyle. Vandana Shiva my heroine in that department, along with Rachel Carson (past) and Professors Bill McKibbon + Tony Ingraffea (present).

"Fracktivism" (as in working to protect our water and air against the ravages of hydrofracking) has occupied copious amounts of my time, energy and resources these last several years in New York State.

Sometime around Thanksgiving 2013 shall see me relocating to an old farmhouse on a lake in Maine -- just in time to enjoy/endure winter.

Climate Change events have put to good use some previous experience toward fundraising endeavors to help a neighboring community recover from Hurricane Irene in 2011, then to organizing a Hurricane Sandy Relief initiative for Staten Island in 2012. That 2013 is thus far devoid of such endeavors is fine by me.

I have a vision I'm working toward . . . it will be juicier with a certain someone to share life with.
I’m really good at
Finding huge joy in simple pleasures . . .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movie = 'Gasland'
Show = Still missing 'Ugly Betty' and 'Northern Exposure'
Book = 'The Year of Magical Thinking' by Joan Didion
Food = Sourced Organically and Prepared with Love
The six things I could never do without
Clean Water
Oxford English Dictionary
Red Lipstick
On a typical Friday night I am
Home. And, quite contentedly so.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ahhh Ah Ah . . . Not so easily . . .
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 54–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a man of intelligence and integrity;
the former comes in many forms.
I quite like a man who has survival skills;
even dirty and off-grid, he is a gentleman.