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33 / F / Bisexual / Available
Long Beach, California
- Last Online
- Nov 2
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m).
- Body Type
- Other and laughing about it
- Gemini and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from college/university
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Other (Fluently)
> Repelling boring strangers.
> Painting beautiful, realistic skin with glazes.
> Perfecting my aerial routine.
> Knitting two socks at once.
> Goofy hair
> Blocky glasses
> Too many piercings
> Bad teeth
"Is her favorite color turquoise?" It isn't.
Some things I can do without:
> Rape culture
> Slut shaming
> STI/STD shaming
> Body policing
> Privilege blindness/denial
If you don't care about these things, don't think they're a big deal, or are of the opinion that any of these problems are pretty much solved, or moot in anyway, just turn around and go away right now.
- Guys and girls who like bi girls
- Ages 26–43
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You're a feminist/ally. You care about social issues. You're uncomfortable with heteronormativity. You're queer. You perform a gender, to one extent or another, that does not correspond to the sex you were born with. You're asexual. You're sex positive. You know how safer sex works and habitually employ it. You're not inclined to ever have children, or you plan to adopt. You're unmarried and don't want marriage to be a part of your future. You examine and challenge your privilege. Consent matters to you a lot. You are not a misogynist and you challenge your internalized patriarchy. You are not a racist and you confront your internalized racism. You understand everyone has to deal with this, that bigotry is not limited to "bad" people.
Straight, monogamous guys, it is as weird and obnoxious for you to approach me for sex or a relationship as it is for you to proposition a lesbian. Unless you're looking for a platonic, asexual friend, go away. Looking for casual sex of some stripe? This applies to you.
Oh yeah, and let's just get this out of the way: if you actually want to meet me some day, be a high match. I could be on any dating site. I'm on OKC for a reason.
Oh, what's that? You don't buy into the matching? Groovy for you. Go away.
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