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55 M Woodridge, IL

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have two daughters, 23 and 8.
We can talk about that age gap. I'm in sales, I enjoy my job. I workout 3 to 4 times week. Eating right and staying fit is very important to me. By no means am I perfect, I still have a sweet tooth. I enjoy staying active and spending time with my girls who I love completely. Girls not with me full time. So I do have some spare time, to meet a special someone. I am not very photogenic, I have been told my photos don't do me justice. The last two photos are about 8 months old. Very willing to take time to get to know that special someone, I am in no hurry. I really don't want to do this again. I am a big man, shoulders not stomach, with a big heart. I care about others, it is not all about me. I don't need anyone in my life, I'm fine. I want someone that is going to enhance my life. I thought I had that, but it didn't work out that way. But I'm not giving up. I know you are out there. I also need to laugh. Life is to short. I want to enjoy life's good things and celebrate and laugh. When life gives me bad news, I want to take the lemons and make lemonaid. There are to many positive things in life, to muddle in the bad. I try not to take myself to seriously, which includes laughing at myself when I do silly or stupid thing, not that I do them all the time. However when I do, I have no problem laughing at me and life. I am looking for someone that I can be open and vulnerable to. I need to feel safe doing that and, that it will not be used against me. I want to feel that I can count on my special someone having my back, as I will have thiers. I have a big heart, I need the same in return. I'm very open and I want to get to know you!
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying ever day and trying to live in the now. For the first time ever I have been spending time by myself. I have made mistakes in the past and just moved on. This time I have taken some time to work on myself to do some soul searching and work on me. Instead of just jumping back in I have been divorced for over five years now and I have made some good changes in my life. I will continue to work on me and try to be a better person and dad every day. I feel like I'm ready to meet someone special and do this just one more time.
I’m really good at
Still play sports, softball especially, the mind still wants to do it, the body does not react the way it use too, but I enjoy it. I'm good at my job. I enjoy cooking on the grill. There nothing that can't be cooked on a grill. I am the best at being dad. Love being involved in my daughters lives, as much as my 23 year old will allow. Help coach my younger daughters sofball team, enjoy being around her and hrr friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read alot but when I do I enjoy books that widen my horizons and get me thinking out of my norm. Music most all, alternative rock to jazz and classical. Food: a lot of different likes. Try to stay healthy, but can't be good all the time oops! ;-).
The six things I could never do without
My daughters, laughter, mobile phone, car, coffee in the morning, working out
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and my girls. What ventures are next for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am enjoying the thought of no work the next day. Going out with friends, having fun. Staying in and vegging. Planning my weekend, if not already planned.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Can we talk? I'll share mine if you share yours!!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are fit both physically and mentally. Not to say that an email or two is a bad thing. However, I would rather get together, for a cup or coffee, or a glass of wine and see if there is anything there. I really don't want to email for a year before we meet. You should also message me if you think that chivalry is not dead. I enjoy treating women like women.