Why do people who are 40% matches with me on here check me out? Does it mean you like the picture? Or does it mean you want to get in debates?
Lots of changes afoot....Feeling relatively grounded in myself despite everything this year has thrown at me. Recently had a couple relationships end (August) so not looking to rush into anything too quick. That said Im always open to unexpected amazing connections falling into my lap (I guess that could be literal or metaphorical).
Ive been enjoying the grey area of intimacy and friendship while still trying to be responsible to everyone involved.
I recently took an amazing, relaxing, inspiring road trip out to Utah. My trip away from the Bay to remember why I love the Bay worked...
Been thinking a lot about emotional intelligence lately. I dont think I want to be involved with anyone who doesn't have a good understanding of what they feel and where those feelings are coming from.
Poly and open relationships seem to work best for me. I actually really enjoy talking about relationships, sex, gender, the dynamics involved in poly or open relationships, etc so if you're curious please ask and I'll gladly dork out on it for a while.