Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Dec 2014 Quick and to the point attempt at a description of the
person I think I am: Longer updated version coming soon...
Anarchist (who appreciates political structure)
Adverse to Academia Politics
Work hard play hard
Love to laugh (laugh at the world so it doesn't kill you)
Love to make people laugh
Lover of all genders and gender benders
Horrible at reading hints
Enjoying the grey areas of relationships
Dork out on relationship models, sex, gender
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Construction way up high...now on a pretty iconic SF landmark
Staying physically active
Drums in punk bands
Running the streets
Trying to break the routine...road trips, getting into the woods,
other trips.... ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating, laughing, drinking whiskey, sports on the ground (NOT the
ones with skates or wheels or in water...its just embarrassing
really), drums, over-thinking things, finding random badass old
soul and funk music, laughing at myself, communicating, taking my
time, getting lots done, smelling things...I appreciate open
communication and talking about sex, relationships, and other
partners (sometimes it can be quite sexy) and think Im pretty good
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lots of red hair
Maybe the eyes or missing teeth
Upon a handshake...my beat up hands
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Handmaid's Tale, Black Girl Dangerous
Music: Old school punk (before the macho amoeba), Chvrches, A Tribe
Called Red, NIN, John Prine
Food- Thai Noodles...mmmm, kale salad, burritos
Books: Mexico Unconquered, The Dispossessed, Love and Struggle,
Kuwasi Balagoon (Anarchist Panther), Robert and Mabel Williams
(Negroes With Guns)
Music: Buena Vista Social Club, T Rex, David Bowie, Old Crow
Food: NY Pizza cause I went back and aint shit out here that
Books- Homage to Catalonia, The Importance of Living, Anarchism and
Other Essays by Emma Goldman
Music: Morphine, Janes Addiciton, Faith No More, Nina Simone, The
Coup, Amy Winehouse, Taj Mahal, Parliament, Ry Cooder, Bad Brains,
Hurray for the Riff Raff
Food: Bread and cheese and ice cream
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-music: playing and listening
-Bourbon ...or ice cream...or bourbon ice cream! I win!
-sunshine...and sunscreen! (redhead)
-Sleep- I miss sleeping in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In general- too many things.
Finding meaning in what I do
Who I prioritize time with
Being a white, working class, hetero passing, cis male
How the above shapes my reality
How that reality give me privilege
How that privilege plays out in political spaces and
Labels like queer and hetero
The assumptions that come with those labels
How rejecting labels is a privilege
Consent to be dominant or dominated in bed
Being happy getting older
And ya I also think about sex a lot. I like cute butts
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show
Drinking good bourbon on a stoop
Driving to the woods
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I thought the viper security system was an electronic toy snake
hidden in a car until recently.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
a) Someone (or multiple) who is open minded and a bit kinky to have
some great sex with
b) A friendship in the grey area
c) If you are someone interested in a more committed relationship
but comfortable discussing and exploring different ideas around
-If you think Bisexual as a term is way too limiting
-Im very attracted to androgyny so dont let the hetero-passing
-If youve noticed that Ive looked at your profile and you think
we'd get along but I haven't messaged you- say hello!
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