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openbotheyes

27 / F / bisexual / Single

Lynn, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am ambitious, kind, and restless.

My Self-Summary

So I'm trying to rewrite this entry here. I want to say some things. But I'm not sure how to. I want to convey that I'm a strong person but that doesn't mean that I'm not sensitive to certain things/people/ideas. I don't feel like my life would be incomplete without a lover, but it would be nice to not be alone some days. I tend towards independence and relationships that aren't too clingy, but of course I still show affection. I'm a mild romantic I guess. I don't demand grand shows/gestures of love though and I don't make a huge deal out of valentine's day. I love sci fi TV and movies and will use them to relate to my own life (this is like the time Captain Picard did thus and such...). I love a person who can make me laugh- especially if I'm sad.

That's all I got at the moment, but I know there will be more. I pretty much have no shame, so if you ask a question I'll probably answer it!

What I’m doing with my life

I'm just wrapping up a year or so of getting my ass kicked by the crappy ass economy. I'm starting a new job that involves something close to my heart: being nice to people. I'll be helping some psychologically disabled veterans keep the structure in their lives- making sure they take their meds and do their laundry and shower and stuff. I also get to cook for them, which is extremely exciting for me!

Someday I'll be a journalist.

I’m really good at

Writing, Making People Laugh, Conversation, Cooking

The first things people usually notice about me

I like to joke! Really though... it's probably my girth.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan, Harry Potter, Where the Red Fern Grows, Bridge to Terebithia

Movies: Star Trek, Patch Adams, anything else with Robin Williams, A Home at the End of the World, and I'm, embarrassingly, a big Harry Potter fan

Music: Folk! Ani DiFranco, James Taylor, John Denver, Rachael Sage, Ben Folds Five, Indigo Girls, Bob Dylan

Foods: Saag Paneer, spinach pizza, corn on the cob

The six things I could never do without

I'm not sure I could say anything original in this little box here.

Family/Friends, Several different colored Pens, Paper, Laughter, Plumbing

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, time, space... black holes!!

On a typical Friday night I am

Sometimes I hang out with a friend or two. Other times I look for new jobs or just read, watch TV, and knit.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a huge proponent of Fat Acceptance. I am fat and I am ok with that. It doesn't make me a bad person and it doesn't indicate some kind of character flaw. It doesn't mean that I'm weak or stupid or lazy. It doesn't even mean that I'm costing your country more money in health care. If you've got a problem with my girth, do some research before insult. You will never hear me apologize for my big ass.

And HELL YEAH I jiggle when I walk!!

You should message me if

You'd like to talk or hang out or talk or write or make me laugh. If you're not afraid to reach for what you want (not in a rapey way).