I'm looking for a girl that is not "strong and independent." I don't even know why a girl looking for a relationship would admit such a thing. If you are able to stand alone and you want to stand alone then it means you view having a relationship as hobby. That's OK, but just don't bother me because I prefer serious relationships.
I want a woman who wants children. Not only because I have 6 kids at home, but because women have a superpower of being able to have kids. Maybe at my age there won't be anymore kids, but it's the principle of the thing. If you don't get it, feel free to ask. Or, think of it this way; what if Superman took off the suit and worked an entry level job without using any of his super powers. You'd shake your head every time you heard about it. And I wouldn't begrudge the man his dreams of having an entry level job for the rest of his life, but I wouldn't want to have a relationship with him (for lack of a better phrase) because of it.