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  • Ages 23–40
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Last online
Dec 31, 2014
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Well- before reading any further know that I recently moved to Tulum, Mexico and am watching every one of my dreams come to fruition :-) I am a spontaneous passionate man and I Love to experience everything Life has to offer. (As per the previous statement this is validated) I Love meeting new people and having new experiences (IBID) My tastes vary greatly; I Love getting suited up, going to the opera and philosophizing over a good bottle of wine (actually I don't drink anymore) or throwing on jeans, a t-shirt and my cowboy boots and sluggin' back some Maker's at a dive bar with some rock 'n' roll blaring (but I'll still dance all night at the bar). Much how Shakespeare ranges from the most mellifluous of matters to the darkest of macabre, I like to appreciate the finer things in Life one evening but then the very next night enjoy a course of a coarser nature.

I was raised by two women (my sister and my mother) so I grew up learning to respect women and be very open with my emotions- but caveat emptor- I'm no softee- I stand and fight to the death for what I believe in (Viva La Revolucion!) I believe a real man is strong but knows that vulnerability is a strength- not a weakness. It is much harder to open yourself up and be honest than it is to put up walls and defenses. I believe in Truth (even though it isn't always pretty) and open communication- but, again- please don't confuse me with a good boy; I got a bit of the rebel in me...ok, a lot of the rebel in me. (Once more unto the lameness, dear friends) (I, also, just realized that I have quite a proclivity for parenthetical phrases...and alliteration).

I loathe judgment and ignorance. (Although, I oft times find myself judging those who judge others- damn those catch 22's stooping me in ignorance) I am a very spiritual person but I, myself, cannot support organized religion. "Do as you will and harm none" shows a bit of my feelings on that iceberg. I was gonna join a monastery 14 years ago but instead jumped into sex drugs and rock n roll- touring as a musician for years.

I enjoy being active- I do yoga (I now teach it in Tulum), hike, snowboard, surf, run and so on.

My standards are very high and I am very picky with women. It takes more than just a nice body to turn me on (I'll take that too ;-) but intellect, wit, confidence, self awareness and a gorgeous smile excite me. Nothin' in the world like a woman with a good sense of humor that doesn't take herself too seriously- I'm a total goofball at times. But there are times to be serious and times to let it rip- knowing the difference is the nuance of Life. I can be as fine as 360 grit sandpaper but as rough as 40 grit. I come with a caveat: Not for the faint of heart. Being easily offended is the only thing offensive to me! Oh, and this is a perfect time to say- please don't be afraid of your sexuality- embrace it healthily. There's too much fun and enlightenment to be had...

Wow, I don't think I left anything for you to ask. You didn't actually read all that did ya? Any more questions?
What I’m doing with my life
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My goals and aspirations are quite lofty but grounded in reality. As a writer (are you surprised?) I am working on several screenplays and have written, produced and directed my own play called Cirque de Lumiere (or Everyman's Apocalypse) that parallels the Book of Revelation, but not in the literal end of the world sense but the end of the world as we know it as we ascend into higher levels of consciousness. It sounds heavy, but it's a bunch of clowns running around speaking in Iambic Pentameter :-)

As a bass player I have had three record contracts (the last of which was with Capitol Records) and toured arenas around the country. I now have my own band, Dive Bar Stickup. DBS is more than a band- it is a concept that we are building that is a culmination of all my passions and talents; it's actually a multimedia marketing campaign for a beer company called the Clumsy Moose :-) Ultimately, I am working towards making my own films (I wanna travel the world making films- so I'm moving to Cozumel to make the next one- after that...Mumbai?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Is this where I bloviate? I hope there is enough room in this little box. Let's see- I'm good at talking about myself! Ha! Ok, seriously-

playing bass
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Shakespeare's Complete Works, anything Oscar Wilde, Bluebeard, Dune, Life of Pi, The Kite Runner, Lord of the Rings, A Tale of Two Cities, Christ Consciousness, Autobiography of a Yogi. Confession: I'm a fantasy dork.

Movies- The Last Temptation of Christ, Just Friends, City of God, Big Fish (basically all Tim Burton, sans Planet of the Apes), Labyrinth, Jackie Chan, Zoolander, Life Is Beautiful, Swing Kids, The Princess Bride and on and on and on...

T.V.- Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, Sons of Anarchy, Bored to Death, How I Met Your Mother, Firefly, So You Think You Can Dance

My musical tastes run the gamut pretty well. Classical Music (Tchaikovsky) and rock are my favorites but I listen to everything (yeah, I know, they all say that) but most people would have a difficult time with my ipod on shuffle. My tastes range from Bare Naked Ladies to Slipknot- from Mozart to Sarah Mclachlan- from jazz to showtunes- from Busta get the point. As a bass player rock is my forte.

Food- I Love it. I Love to cook it (still learning). I Love to eat it. I Love to play with it. Hehehe. Though now I am vegan so I am learning to cook without people choking :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Shakespeare, Garlic, Passion, A Beautiful Smile, Love, Music, Osculation, Copulation

8- I don't like limits.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my future wife might be doing right now...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What is this word 'typical?'
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is certainly not going to be written in this little box for all to see!
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