I was raised by two women (my sister and my mother) so I grew up learning to respect women and be very open with my emotions- but caveat emptor- I'm no softee- I stand and fight to the death for what I believe in (Viva La Revolucion!) I believe a real man is strong but knows that vulnerability is a strength- not a weakness. It is much harder to open yourself up and be honest than it is to put up walls and defenses. I believe in Truth (even though it isn't always pretty) and open communication- but, again- please don't confuse me with a good boy; I got a bit of the rebel in me...ok, a lot of the rebel in me. (Once more unto the lameness, dear friends) (I, also, just realized that I have quite a proclivity for parenthetical phrases...and alliteration).
I loathe judgment and ignorance. (Although, I oft times find myself judging those who judge others- damn those catch 22's stooping me in ignorance) I am a very spiritual person but I, myself, cannot support organized religion. "Do as you will and harm none" shows a bit of my feelings on that iceberg.
I enjoy being active- I do yoga, hike, snowboard, surf and so on. I do Love to be healthy but I also relish basking in the sun with some margaritas on the patio.
My standards are very high and I am very picky with women. It takes more than just a nice body to turn me on (I'll take that too ;-) but intellect, wit, confidence, self awareness and a gorgeous smile excite me. Nothin' in the world like a woman with a good sense of humor that doesn't take herself too seriously- I'm a total goofball at times. But there are times to be serious and times to let it rip- knowing the difference is the nuance of Life. I can be as fine as 360 grit sandpaper but as rough as 40 grit. I come with a caveat: Not for the faint of heart. Being easily offended is the only thing offensive to me! Oh, and this is a perfect time to say- please don't be afraid of your sexuality- embrace it healthily. There's too much fun and enlightenment to be had...
Wow, I don't think I left anything for you to ask. You didn't actually read all that did ya? Any more questions?