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ophela1847

31 / F / Straight / Single

Cheltenham, United Kingdom

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:58pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Whilst it is true that no amount of adjectives can describe who a person is, I will make a vague attempt to paint an outline. Writing is my passion, when I have the time. I am currently studying history and live in Cheltenham with my 5 year old son, whom I adore, along with our maine coon cat. I like nature, visiting quaint tea rooms, art galleries and museums and anything with a ring of enchantment about it. I suppose I am a romanticist at heart along the non wishy-washy Caspar David Friedrich lines. This probably sounds pretentious, but I am in fact very friendly and down to earth, but quite a contradiction in that my head is often in the clouds, or a bit caught up in my imagination. I have a playful, silly, and naughty side too which seems to become more exacerbated as I grow older. Maybe it is simply that we lose our inhibitions a bit with age and (hopefully) wisdom.

Musically speaking, my taste is quite diverse. Bach, Schubert, Chopin and Kate Bush are long-standing favourites of mine. Of late, I have been discovering rockabilly music, listening to more 60's music, psychedelic and otherwise, and really reliving the 20th century, right across the decades. After all, there is really nothing like playing Glenn Miller whilst making tea the good old fashioned way!

Ideally it would be wonderful to meet someone special. My soulmate, the elusive pimpernel, must be somewhere 'out there'. I believe he is brooding, passionate and maybe even a bit quirky, dominant in the bedroom yet in touch with his feminine side. Ultimately it is the connection which matters most though. I am however open to friendship and naughtiness and fine conversation too.

P.S my username is a mistake - I typed Ophelia1847 too fast, alas it is too late to alter it!
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my red hair, not sure, and very dark eyes and quite well spoken.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read 19th century classics, books about history, ancient mysteries, art and spirituality. My favourite authors include William Blake, Dickens, the Brontes, Graham Hancock and David Wilcock.

I don't really watch televison, but my favourite show of all time is Patrick Mcgoohan's (the most best version by far) The Prisoner. So rich with symbolism, plus Mcgoohan's voice melts me!
The six things I could never do without
Love
Family
Books
Sex
Imagination
Humour
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is really going on in the world, and beyond it - I would dearly love to know more about the latter
The nature of existence
Love, etc
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You have depth and character. Also, I apologise if I do not reply to every message. If there is too great a distance, for example, I don't see how it would work, but do not wish to offend. Please do not send impolite messages, for example if I haven't replied, I wish everyone well and don't wish to cause confusion.