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33 Cheltenham, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
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5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Working on University
Has kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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Left-handed-warm-hearted-animal-loving-creative-sort of vintage woman here simply seeking.

I live in Cheltenham with my 7 year old son, whom I adore, along with our wilful maine coon cat.

I am a creative writing student.

Musically speaking I have quite varied taste. My super hero is Bob Dylan, and I like a bit of raunchy rockabilly music (think werewolf by the frantics or madness by the rhythm rockers). I like 60's surf music too, and am still expanding my late 60s musical knowledge. Very drawn to psychedelia and surrealism, along with all the other vintage. I'm quite a hippy at heart, and was really born too late. Also enjoy a bit of Noel Coward, Glenn Miller, Carry on films, Bach, William Blake, poetry, Sinatra, vintage teacups, esoteric books, Bobby Vee, 60s kitsch lounge music, book fairs, record fairs, dancing Isadora Duncan style, yoga, nature, writing (my absolute purpose, vocationally speaking), literature, old films, The Prisoner, upcycling furniture, Thunderbirds, Atom Heart Mother, tea, Tom Baker as Dr Who, vintage clothing, Edgar Allen Poe, baking, oo er this list is getting rather long.

I am seeking someone kind and caring with whom I can build a good, loving relationship. But the connection must be strong. I tend to be drawn to intellectual older men, quirky is good too! Ultimately it is the connection which matters most. I am not really one for long emails, would much prefer to meet in person and see how we get on over a cup of tea or similar. If we connect then great, if not, no matter, we go our separate ways and wish one another well. It's impossible to tell whether you get along or not over email, so a face to face meet sooner rather than later is preferable.

P.S my username is a mistake - I typed Ophelia1847 too fast, alas it is too late to alter it!

I'm going to quote a passage from my birth chart as it is very true of me; she is shy, delicate but proud, bold and lively. Has strong passions and likes extravagant love affairs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking after my little boy and pussy cat, studying, writing, meeting new people, seeking the open door (the really nice art deco one with the words 'That's it!' engraved upon it).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wouldn't you like to know?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my red hair, not sure, and very dark eyes and quite well spoken.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read 19th century classics, books about history, ancient mysteries, art and spirituality. My favourite authors include William Blake, Dickens, the Brontes, Graham Hancock, Virginia Woolf and I also find Stewart Swerdlow and Simon Parkes very interesting.

I don't really watch televison, but my favourite show of all time is Patrick Mcgoohan's (the most best version by far) The Prisoner. So rich with symbolism, plus Mcgoohan's voice melts me!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is really going on in the world, and beyond it - I would dearly love to know more about the latter
The nature of existence
Love, etc
Derren Nesbitt
Current writing projects
Timothy Good, very interesting fellow and such a sexy voice!
You should message me if
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You have depth and character. Also, I apologise if I do not reply to every message. If there is too great a distance, for example, I don't see how it would work, but do not wish to offend. Please do not send impolite messages, for example if I haven't replied, I wish everyone well and don't wish to cause confusion.