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29 Hamden, CT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 15
5' 9" (1.75m)
Atheism and it’s important
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

We are pressed, pressed on each other,
We will be told at once
Of anything that happens

And the discovery of fact bursts
In a paroxysm of emotion
Now as always. Crusoe

We say was
So we have chosen.


Obsessed, bewildered

By the shipwreck
Of the singular

We have chosen the meaning
Of being numerous..."

—George Oppen, from "Of Being Numerous"

I am a degenerate, vicious, and a dilettante.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
...That's a very good question.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Breathing (actually, I'm not very good at that). Due Diligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wonderboys by Michael Chabon
Crash by David Cronenberg
The Venture Brothers
Surfer Rosa by The Pixies
Indian food at a restaurant as yet unspecified
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aesthetics. Politics. Rhetoric. Tits. Poetry. Robots.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Aesthetics. Politics. Rhetoric. Tits. Poetry. Robots and Fireworks
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drunk, or watching old movies and eating takeout, or getting arrested, or writing, or reading, or trying to determine precisely what constitutes a "typical Friday night," or wandering around. Some of these are more typical than others.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pathologically honest about myself. This makes playing poker difficult and small talk very interesting.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. actually found this profile interesting, or my minimalism endearing. Also, if you want to message me, for whatever reason, (for instance, if you want to talk about my username.)

Or, if you want to complain about modernism.