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orallyinclined

72 / M / straight / Single

Gibbstown, New Jersey

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I am oral, passionate, and waysmart.

My Self-Summary

I'm a 72-yr.-old guy. No photo up yet but "dead ringer" for Lee J. Cobb (deceased movie actor), more muscular, and a few extra pounds.

Widowed (twice) after 46 faithfully monogamous years plus
adventurous premarital years, back to 8-yr.-old "initiation" by lez gals (11 and 16), undergirding oral inclination pursued ever since--many thousands of times.

Bright, intellectually inclined; when young, upper tenth of 99th IQ percentile (we decline with age, though). Self-employed 40 years and, presently, semi-retired.

For almost 40 years have had intense interest in Economics (as an amateur) and now believe myself at the "leading edge" in the integration of economics with evolutionary and social theory--concerned to alert the widest possible audience to calamity for the civilized world (at an unpredictable distance in the future) for which present difficulties are tiny forerunner events presaging cataclysmic collapse (deaths in hundreds of millions through starvation alone).

What I’m doing with my life

Somewhat reclusive but work regularly (though semi-retired). Long ago, craftily avoided saving money, so I'd always have reason to get moving in the morning and--guess what?--it worked! Slowly trying to put the gist of my accumulated economic (esp. monetary) and social insight in writing.

I’m really good at

Many things; but I'd risk being thought an exaggerator (or worse) through enumeration; suffice to say I'm a classic underachiever where I might otherwise have accomplished substantially. Publicity-averse since early in life--perhaps to counteract exhibitionist tendencies.

Extremely accomplished pleasing women, including, especially, sexually; extraordinarly focused, lavish, and thorough in such attentions.

I seek an attractive, intelligent, and sympathetic adult woman, hoping to "click" with a one whose high (and focused) libido leads to enjoying (ans, perhaps, even requiring) the level and type of attention and effort I'm accustomed to expend.

Since alone, had turned my mind to reminiscences of much earlier years and noticed patterns of experience never thought about previously and, in those, seemed to detect a general theme. Since these (experiences) were sexual or sexually-related, began to set each down in the form of entertaining (to those so inclined) vignettes or erotic tales. The manner in which these differ from fiction intended merely to excite prurience is that each illustrates some aspect of deliberate (female) behavior I'd stumbled upon in my recollections; they carry lessons useful to such women as might wish to exercise greater control in sexual interactions than in the past and to make much more likely the prospect of assuring their own complete, enhanced satisfaction on a continuing basis.

I've listed some titles. Most are short and contain a lesson partly self-explanatory; each really needs expansion and additional commentary (not yet attempted) in writing or orally (in the sense of spoken!) or to be demonstrated at various levels (from hand gestures to orally--and I don't mean spoken!).

"The Magic Black Pleasure Mask" "

"Lipstick"

"Les Girls" (and "les"--except in the ribald sense--isn't a French indefinite article)

"Ever' Damn Time I Smile At You--Heah?"

"Lady In A Wheelchair" or "Power Of The Plaint On The Pliant"

"The Eyes Have It!"

"Unusual Twins"

In some, the lesson is pointed and narrow; in others, more generally applicable and comprehensive. I can make at least some available to request.

The first things people usually notice about me

Not too much, as long as I keep my mouth shut. I'm "common as dirt," nothing outstanding, even somewhat "rough around the edges," usually wearing old jeans (keepin' newer ones for "dress-up"), drivin' a '94 pickup. At "blending," I'm not that bad--fair command of vernacular and idiom of more than one region, talk fairly knowledgeably on many subjects, and know better than to try to do so on those about which I "don't know beans" (which, itself, is a fair number).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: haven't read fiction in 60 years (except newspapers and magazines (of which I've steered clear for the last 30). But, if you insist, almost anything by Twain, Twain or Poe for short stories, both also for literary criticism.

Movies: "Godfather I"; "Outlaw Josey Wales"; "Godfather II"
"Raising Arizona"; "Legend of Cat Ballou," many others, actually but make special mention of the politically-incorrect, long-ago (Disney), "Song of the South', a warm tribute to the humor, humanity, and wisdom of an old black man (whether ever extant in the flesh or not), a work now regarded as racially-divisive, and, in that spirit, driven into the oblivion of the unmentionable. When ghetto rappers grow old and gray (if they make it), they'll be doing well to have a tenth of the regard an older generation (white and black, North and South) had for ol' Uncle Remus.

Music: Common classics like Beethoven's symphonies,
"Moonlight Sonata," "Valse Lento," and "Fur Elise." What's'isname's "William Tell Overture (Hiyo, Silver!)," Sinatra, Pavarotti and tenor buddies, the Hanks Snow and Williams (Jr. and Sr.), the guys who sang originals of "Hey, Joe" and "Blue Suede Shoes," Kristofferson, Simon & Garfunkel, Linda Ronstadt (especially in erotic dreams), Elvis, Croce, Beatles, and special mention to the Bobs: Mitchum ("Thunder Road") & Horton ("North! to Alaska"). Grudging kudos to one of the best singers (and actresses) of all time, the nauseatingly leftist liberal first-named Barbra and whose last I'll not mention (the maximum of spite of which I'm capable). Last but by no means least, the epitome of the commonsensical common man, hero of every thinking, unreconstructed redneck anywhere (because they're--I should say we're, and I'm a 100% Jew--everywhere, whether by racial heritage or just being true, ready-to-fight-for-it Americans--by golly!), Johnny Cash, doubly mean and dangerous should you dare call him "Sue."

Poetry: Kipling, Tennyson, Shakespeare, Yeats, Keats, guy
who wrote "Maud Muller" (and guy who wrote the parody) & "The Deacon's Wonderful, One-Hoss Shay," Bret Harte ("The Heathen Chinee," etc.), and anything under the midnight sun by Robert Service. Special mention to "Ode to a Grecian Urn" (but I think I've got the guy included already preceding) and, "Elegy In A Country Churchyard."

Food: Italian (by a long shot over next best!); esp. mixed seafood aliol w/ broccoli rabe and red hot and roasted red peppers with (nothin' but DeCecco) linguine; American, Chinese (Canton, Szechuan, Hunan, Mongolian), Tex-and true Mex, Korean, Jewish (yay!), French, Greek, Cajun, Japanese, and Philly cheesesteaks and hoagies all in a dead heat for second place (without bothering to mention the you-know-what that's really my true favorite and is famous for never killing anyone--or putting weight on 'em, for that matter.)

The six things I could never do without

Family, mental stimulation, stuff to think about, friends, love, and chances to exercise my special expertise (the last couple very sadly lacking and severely missed over a year--now just awaiting some lucky explorer's discovery).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Economics, esp. monetary and trade policies;
Evolution/Genetics (incl.racial differentiation);
Human society as example of ontological recapitulation;
Socioeconomic progress, poverty-melioration, and what I call "civilizational fragilization;"
Fresh-water fishing, the out-of-doors life I've grown apart from and miss (and, finally, on occasion, watermelon).

On a typical Friday night I am

Just as hot to trot as any other.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Yes, done that, too, though not so very many times--they gotta be mighty powerful persuasive. But it was one of the "questions," so I was reminded. How about you?

You should message me if

You're breathing hard (or even if you're breathing!)