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orallyinclined

73 / M / Straight / Single

Gibbstown, New Jersey

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I am oral, passionate, and waysmart.

My Self-Summary

I'm a 72-yr.-old guy. No photo up but "dead ringer" for Lee J. Cobb (deceased actor), more muscular, and some extra pounds.

Widowed (2 X) after 46 monogamous years. Adventurous earlier life, back to 8-yr.-old "initiation" by lez gals (11 and 16), undergirding oral inclination pursued many thousands of times since.

Intellectually inclined. When young, upper tenth of top IQ percentile (we decline with age, though). Self-employed many years; now semi-retired.

Amateur but intense interest in Economics, especially focused on monetary
practice and relationship to prevailing policies--for a century--through which those to whom we look as leader-elites in gov't. and professions
systematically promote, defend, or support egregiously flawed, ultimately disastrous, wrong-headed approaches offered as intended to improve both material and social conditions.

What I’m doing with my life

Somewhat reclusive but work regularly (though semi-retired). Long ago, craftily avoided saving money, so I'd always have reason to get moving in the morning and--guess what?--it worked! Slowly trying to put the gist of my accumulated economic (esp. monetary) and social insight in writing.

I’m really good at

Many things; but I'd risk being thought an exaggerator (or worse) through enumeration; suffice to say I'm a classic underachiever where I might otherwise have accomplished substantially. Publicity-averse since early in life--perhaps to counteract exhibitionist tendencies.

Pleasing women, especially those of higher libido; extraordinarly focused, lavish, and thorough in such attentions as required.

I seek an attractive, intelligent, and sympathetic woman, hoping to "click" with a one whose level of desire leads to enjoying (requiring, perhaps) the type of attention and effort I'm accustomed (and delighted) to expend.

Since alone, had turned my mind to reminiscences of much earlier years and noticed patterns of experience never thought about previously and, in those, seemed to detect a general theme. Since these (experiences) were sexual or sexually-related, began to set each down in the form of entertaining (to those so inclined) vignettes or erotic tales. The manner in which these differ from fiction intended merely to excite prurience is that each illustrates some aspect of deliberate (female) behavior I'd stumbled upon in my recollections; they carry lessons useful to such women as might wish to exercise greater control in sexual interactions than in the past and to make much more likely the prospect of assuring their own complete, enhanced satisfaction on a continuing basis.

I've listed some titles. Most are short and contain a lesson partly self-explanatory; each really needs expansion and additional commentary (not yet attempted) in writing or orally (in the sense of spoken!) or to be demonstrated at various levels (from hand gestures to orally--and I don't mean spoken!).

"The Magic Black Pleasure Mask" "

"Lipstick"

"Les Girls" (and "les"--except in the ribald sense--isn't a French indefinite article)

"Ever' Damn Time I Smile At You--Heah?"

"Lady In A Wheelchair" or "Power Of The Plaint On The Pliant"

"The Eyes Have It!"

"Unusual Twins"

In some, the lesson is pointed and narrow; in others, more generally applicable and comprehensive. I can make at least some available to request.

The first things people usually notice about me

Not much, as long as I keep my mouth shut. I'm "common as dirt," even somewhat "rough around the edges," usually wearing old jeans (keepin' newer ones for "dress-up"), drivin' a '94 pickup. At "blending," I'm not that bad--fair command of vernacular and idiom of more than one region, talk knowledgeably on many subjects, and know better than to try to do so on those about which I don't (which, itself, is a fair number).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: No fiction in 60 years (except newspapers and magazines, of which I've steered clear the last 30). Almost anything by Mark Twain; Twain or Poe for short stories, both also for literary criticism.

Movies: "Godfather I"; "Outlaw Josey Wales"; "Godfather II"
"Raising Arizona"; "Legend of Cat Ballou," many others, but special mention of the long-ago (Disney), "Song of the South', a tribute to the humor, humanity, and wisdom of an old black man (whether ever extant in the flesh or not), now regarded as racially-divisive, and, in that spirit, driven into the oblivion of the unmentionable.

Music: Common classics: Beethoven's symphonies; "Moonlight Sonata," "Fur Elise." What's'isname's "William Tell Overture (Hiyo, Silver!)," Wagner's "Ride of the Valkyries," Sinatra, Pavarotti (and tenor buddies), Hanks Snow and Williams (Jr. and Sr.), "Hey, Joe" and "Blue Suede Shoes," (originals), Kristofferson, Simon & Garfunkel, Linda Ronstadt (especially in erotic dreams), Elvis, Croce, Beatles, with special mention of the Bobs: Mitchum ("Thunder Road") & Horton ("North! to Alaska"). Grudging kudos to one of the best singers and actresses of all time, the nauseatingly leftist Barbra. And last (by no means least), the epitome of the commonsensical ordinary man and every unreconstructed redneck, Johnny Cash, doubly mean and dangerous should you try to call him "Sue."

Poetry: Kipling, Tennyson, Shakespeare, Yeats, Keats, guy
who wrote "Maud Muller" (and guy who wrote the parody) & "The Deacon's Wonderful, One-Hoss Shay," Bret Harte ("The Heathen Chinee," etc.), and anything under the midnight sun by Robert Service. Special mention to "Ode to a Grecian Urn" (but I think I've got the guy included already preceding) and, "Elegy In A Country Churchyard."

Food: Italian (by a long shot over next best!); esp. mixed seafood aliol w/ broccoli rabe and both hot and roasted red peppers with linguine; American, Chinese (whether Canton, Szechuan, Hunan, or Mongolian), Tex-and true-Mex, Korean, Jewish (yay!), French, Greek, Cajun, Japanese, and Philly cheesesteaks and hoagies all tied for second place (without mention of you-know-what that's really my true favorite, famous for never killing anyone--or putting weight on 'em, for that matter.)

The six things I could never do without

Family, mental stimulation, stuff to think about, friends, love, and chances to exercise my special expertise (the last couple sadly lacking and sorely missed for quite some time--just awaiting some lucky discoverer).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Economics, monetary and trade policies; Evolution/Genetics (incl.racial differentiation);

Human society as paralleling of biological evolution and recapitulation;

Socioeconomic progress, poverty-melioration, and a process (I intend to write about) which I've termed "fragilization" as applied to civilization.

Fresh-water fishing, the out-of-doors life I've grown apart from and miss (and, finally, on occasion, watermelon).

On a typical Friday night I am

Just as hot to trot as any other.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Yes, done that, too, though not so very many times--they gotta be mighty powerful persuasive. But it was one of the "questions," so I was reminded. How about you?

You should message me if

You're breathing hard (or even if you're breathing!)