I am oral, passionate, and waysmart.
My Self-Summary
I'm a 72-yr.-old guy. No photo up but "dead ringer" for Lee J. Cobb
(deceased actor), more muscular, and some extra pounds.
Widowed (2 X) after 46 monogamous years. Adventurous earlier life,
back to 8-yr.-old "initiation" by lez gals (11 and 16),
undergirding oral inclination pursued many thousands of times
since.
Intellectually inclined. When young, upper tenth of top IQ
percentile (we decline with age, though). Self-employed many years;
now semi-retired.
Amateur but intense interest in Economics, especially focused on
monetary
practice and relationship to prevailing policies--for a
century--through which those to whom we look as leader-elites in
gov't. and professions
systematically promote, defend, or support egregiously flawed,
ultimately disastrous, wrong-headed approaches offered as intended
to improve both material and social conditions.
What I’m doing with my life
Somewhat reclusive but work regularly (though semi-retired). Long
ago, craftily avoided saving money, so I'd always have reason to
get moving in the morning and--guess what?--it worked! Slowly
trying to put the gist of my accumulated economic (esp. monetary)
and social insight in writing.
I’m really good at
Many things; but I'd risk being thought an exaggerator (or worse)
through enumeration; suffice to say I'm a classic underachiever
where I might otherwise have accomplished substantially.
Publicity-averse since early in life--perhaps to counteract
exhibitionist tendencies.
Pleasing women, especially those of higher libido; extraordinarly
focused, lavish, and thorough in such attentions as required.
I seek an attractive, intelligent, and sympathetic woman, hoping to
"click" with a one whose level of desire leads to enjoying
(requiring, perhaps) the type of attention and effort I'm
accustomed (and delighted) to expend.
Since alone, had turned my mind to reminiscences of much earlier
years and noticed patterns of experience never thought about
previously and, in those, seemed to detect a general theme. Since
these (experiences) were sexual or sexually-related, began to set
each down in the form of entertaining (to those so inclined)
vignettes or erotic tales. The manner in which these differ from
fiction intended merely to excite prurience is that each
illustrates some aspect of deliberate (female) behavior I'd
stumbled upon in my recollections; they carry lessons useful to
such women as might wish to exercise greater control in sexual
interactions than in the past and to make much more likely the
prospect of assuring their own complete, enhanced satisfaction on a
continuing basis.
I've listed some titles. Most are short and contain a lesson partly
self-explanatory; each really needs expansion and additional
commentary (not yet attempted) in writing or orally (in the sense
of spoken!) or to be demonstrated at various levels (from hand
gestures to orally--and I don't mean spoken!).
"The Magic Black Pleasure Mask" "
"Lipstick"
"Les Girls" (and "les"--except in the ribald sense--isn't a French
indefinite article)
"Ever' Damn Time I Smile At You--Heah?"
"Lady In A Wheelchair" or "Power Of The Plaint On The Pliant"
"The Eyes Have It!"
"Unusual Twins"
In some, the lesson is pointed and narrow; in others, more
generally applicable and comprehensive. I can make at least some
available to request.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not much, as long as I keep my mouth shut. I'm "common as dirt,"
even somewhat "rough around the edges," usually wearing old jeans
(keepin' newer ones for "dress-up"), drivin' a '94 pickup. At
"blending," I'm not that bad--fair command of vernacular and idiom
of more than one region, talk knowledgeably on many subjects, and
know better than to try to do so on those about which I don't
(which, itself, is a fair number).
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: No fiction in
60 years (except newspapers and magazines, of which I've steered
clear the last 30). Almost anything by Mark Twain; Twain or Poe for
short stories, both also for literary criticism.
Movies: "Godfather
I"; "Outlaw Josey Wales"; "Godfather II"
"Raising Arizona"; "Legend of Cat Ballou," many others, but special
mention of the long-ago (Disney), "Song of the South', a tribute to
the humor, humanity, and wisdom of an old black man (whether ever
extant in the flesh or not), now regarded as racially-divisive,
and, in that spirit, driven into the oblivion of the
unmentionable.
Music: Common
classics: Beethoven's symphonies; "Moonlight Sonata," "Fur Elise."
What's'isname's "William Tell Overture (Hiyo, Silver!)," Wagner's
"Ride of the Valkyries," Sinatra, Pavarotti (and tenor buddies),
Hanks Snow and Williams (Jr. and Sr.), "Hey, Joe" and "Blue Suede
Shoes," (originals), Kristofferson, Simon & Garfunkel, Linda
Ronstadt (especially in erotic dreams), Elvis, Croce, Beatles, with
special mention of the Bobs: Mitchum ("Thunder Road") & Horton
("North! to Alaska"). Grudging kudos to one of the best singers and
actresses of all time, the nauseatingly leftist Barbra. And last
(by no means least), the epitome of the commonsensical ordinary man
and every unreconstructed redneck, Johnny Cash, doubly mean and
dangerous should you try to call him "Sue."
Poetry: Kipling,
Tennyson, Shakespeare, Yeats, Keats, guy
who wrote "Maud Muller" (and guy who wrote the parody) & "The
Deacon's Wonderful, One-Hoss Shay," Bret Harte ("The Heathen
Chinee," etc.), and anything under the midnight sun by Robert
Service. Special mention to "Ode to a Grecian Urn" (but I think
I've got the guy included already preceding) and, "Elegy In A
Country Churchyard."
Food: Italian (by a
long shot over next best!); esp. mixed seafood aliol w/ broccoli
rabe and both hot and roasted red peppers with linguine; American,
Chinese (whether Canton, Szechuan, Hunan, or Mongolian), Tex-and
true-Mex, Korean, Jewish (yay!), French, Greek, Cajun, Japanese,
and Philly cheesesteaks and hoagies all tied for second place
(without mention of you-know-what that's really my true favorite,
famous for never killing anyone--or putting weight on 'em, for that
matter.)
The six things I could never do without
Family, mental stimulation, stuff to think about, friends, love,
and chances to exercise my special expertise (the last couple sadly
lacking and sorely missed for quite some time--just awaiting some
lucky discoverer).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Economics, monetary and trade policies; Evolution/Genetics
(incl.racial differentiation);
Human society as paralleling of biological evolution and
recapitulation;
Socioeconomic progress, poverty-melioration, and a process (I
intend to write about) which I've termed "fragilization" as applied
to civilization.
Fresh-water fishing, the out-of-doors life I've grown apart from
and miss (and, finally, on occasion, watermelon).
On a typical Friday night I am
Just as hot to trot as any other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Yes, done that, too, though not so very many times--they gotta be
mighty powerful persuasive. But it was one of the "questions," so I
was reminded. How about you?
You should message me if
You're breathing hard (or even if you're breathing!)