I'm looking to meet a good hearted woman with whom I have addicting chemistry. That's my short answer.
However, The longer answer would look like:
I'm looking for a woman who isn't looking to force that chemistry. One who understands that it takes time to decide if a relationship is the right answer.
A woman that realizes that my boys are a priority, as I'm sure her children will be to her (if she has them).
Someone who enjoys going out or staying in, but doesn't want to get caught in a rut doing either all of the time.
An honest person, who values trust and doesn't abuse it.
I'm looking for a woman who doesn't need constant attention and doesn't expect me to "complete her". I believe that we are whole people in and of ourselves and we can't depend on others to "make" us happy. I believe that I may be able to compliment someone's life, but I'm not looking for someone who wants me to be responsible for it (hope that makes sense).
I'd like to meet a woman that believes in time together and time apart for two reasons: first, because time together is enhanced by being able to share the experiences that occur while apart. And two, that exploring individual interests or friendships is healthy.
Sense of humor and physical attraction are important to me. I believe those two qualities are key to any meaningful relationship. I don't like being too serious, although I do like discussing (or debating) current events.
But in a nutshell, someone with whom I have addicting chemistry.
Know someone like that? Is that you? If you've read this far, I'm thinking it's possible. Hope to hear from you. But if not, good luck with your search.