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44 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 5
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Radical Leftist

Like most other people I am engaged in my own personal revolution against a self simultaneously savaged and wooed by Madison avenue. I believe most of these profiles should be red-tagged for irony violations and closed until the appropriate repairs have been made and fines levied in the amount of a whole lot of soul-searching and renovation.

update: Soul-searching and renovation in progress.

Please respond if you're comfortable with complexity, you have a slight artistic bent, you are desiring of love, you have at least one eye open on what's going on in the larger world, you're compassionate, you have friends in all sorts of different places, you're intellectually curious, and, okay are capable of wielding maybe just a leetle irony to wash your sincerity down with and feel capable of dating someone who experiences a little ennui now and again.

I am this and that, that and this, and the other
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Listening to people tell me about their mothers,noodling on the guitar, writing, reading, politics, Marxism, Free Radio Santa-Cruz, indy-media, Donna Haraway Emotional alchemy, Vintage Clothing, Philosophy, Plotting Revolution, Feminism, Cocktails, Gin Mutual Mental Retardation punctuated by moments of brilliance, True compassion, Birdwatching, Gender, Primatology, neuroscience, neurology, psychology, Laying in a field watching shooting stars, making up birdcalls and then recording them. Being nice to you even if you annoy me. Making messes and then cleaning them up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people tell me about their mothers, painting, reading, politics, Marxism, Alchemy, Vintage Clothing, Philosophy, Plotting Revolution, Feminism, Cocktails, Mutual Mental Retardation punctuated by moments of brilliance, True compassion, Birdwatching, Gender, Primatology, Laying in a field watching the shooting stars, Necking and heavy petting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bump into things. I can converse about anything. My legs are longer than the list of lies the Bush administration {update: Obama administration} had been telling us.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, something to write with, birds, dissent, bodies of water, gin and tonics.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Amy Goodman and Karl Marx and whether men and women can really get it together and make something workable of this life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Waiting for you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I saw two giant moths make love at night on the Amazon River. I leave crumbs in the sheets. I supplement my deficient Serotonin.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are good peoples. Fascinating peoples. Preferably both and in that order. I am looking for people who can converse about anything. Eccentric geniuses who can't walk down the street without tripping but are writing manifestos which may never set foot outside of a desk drawer. Ideas. Inspiration. Talk. Good conversation, for me, can be as intimate and gratifying as sex. If your idea of a good time is reading with just the tips of your toes touching someone else's, if you can speculate and debate endlessly about how much of human nature is socially constructed and how much is soft-wired (and then concede that I'm right, of course!), if you are like me only your memory is better, if you are just as happy walking in the woods as hosting a cocktail party, if you will not make me feel bad if I am perpetually losing my keys or getting lost, if you know where my keys are, if you profess to appreciate irony but in private you laugh at shows with names like "Pets do the darnedest things", if you're not afraid of silences, if you can be 'real', if you can you can appreciate me as an object 10% of the time and as a person 90% of the time, if you think life is pretty ridiculous in concept and are a teensy-bit afraid of the void but, HEY, we're here aren't we so let's do it like weasels. If you're a teensy bit of a top. Then you should send me a message.