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31 F Chicago, IL

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Last Online
Today – 3:00am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Grew up in Illinois but moved around a lot through my twenties. I particularly enjoy writing, reading, volunteer work and travel. I love Chicago and think it's one of the best cities in the history of the universe. Above all else I value honesty and kindness and a sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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I used to be a newspaper reporter and now I work in higher ed. I have master's degrees in creative writing and public administration. I spend a lot of time working on creative writing projects and also serve on the board of a nonprofit dealing with global women's issues. I will forever be daydreaming about future travel opportunities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping myself entertained. Making chili. Playing tennis with greater enthusiasm than skill -- want to play?!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm going to guess friendly and easy-going, with a dash of goofy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Sun Also Rises, Wuthering Heights, The Glass Castle, Lit, Wild, Truth and Beauty, Just Kids, An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination, The Answer to the Riddle is Me. Poetry by Lynda Hull, Adrienne Rich, T.S. Eliot, etc.

Movies: Almost Famous, All the President's Men, Shopgirl, Away We Go, Mona Lisa Smile. I enjoy watching movies, of course, but don't watch them often and definitely don't consider myself a movie buff.

Shows: Mad Men, Girls, Homeland, Masters of Sex, Orphan Black, Parks and Recreation, The Bridge, The Daily Show.

Music: The National, Blind Pilot, The War on Drugs, Dawn Landes, The Shins, Gregory Alan Isakov, The Rolling Stones, Feist, Ryan Adams, Aimee Mann, A. A. Bondy, Band of Horses, Bob Dylan.

Food: No seafood. Nothing with scales or an exoskeleton. No, thank you. Pass. Most other options will do.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ambition, ideas, literature, travel, coffee/tea, and writing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My writing projects. Global development issues. Whatever books I'm reading. Travel ideas. Life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I automatically disqualify anyone whose screen name ends in "4U."

Also, I am allergic to your cat.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're a goofball and an optimist.