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35 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jan 7
Indian, Pacific Islander
Seeing Someone
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am James:
J: Jubilant_________J: Jokester
A: Aggressive__OR__A: Altruistic
M: Man Crazy______M: Meticulous
E: Extroverted_____E: Ethereal
S: Sweet_________S: Simple

Depends on my mood or which way you sway me, the acronym mode I am in. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a pharmacy supervisor at a major medical center in the city. It's pretty stressful, but it keeps me focused and busy. Hoping to figure out a way to satiate my musical side in the next few years so that my life is complete! Would love to perform again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing....I did choir and operas in college. Sang in church choir and at my pharmacy school graduation in NYC. Perform in my work elevator for now. woohoo!

Also, I love making people laugh. It makes me happy when people are laughing to tears from my antics and jokes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my shoes. :) I am very approachable and affable; so it's easy for me to make friends right off the bat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I loved A Wrinkle in Time, Watership Down and The Awakening from my childhood. These days, I like to read John Donne poems. Mostly, love reading random nonfiction or some books about Queen Elizabeth the I.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know if this is a cop out or not, but I could do without pretty much anything. Everything is ephemeral and transitory in life....the Buddhist in me. ;) I love the friends I have and could not do without making long-lasting connections with people. :-P ....For silliness, I couldn't do without some of the comedy series I've collected, like Keeping Up Appearances, Summer Heights High and Strangers with Candy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why there is always so much laundry and daily cleaning to do of my apartment. I am only one person!! Also, I think about where I will be in 2 years. Lived in NYC for 10 years now. Would love to try somewhere ecletic and charming, like New Orleans or San Francisco or Charlotte, NC.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing anything that doesn't involve my job!! Go to dinner and movies occassionally.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book. I'll share anything as long as I like and respect you....and you're cute. ;)
You should message me if
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you like to exchange witty banter, are willing to laugh at yourself, have personal style, or at least one that is complementary to you, and you are looking to be a good friend.