If you are a dreamer, a wisher, a liar,
A hope-er, a pray-er, a magic bean buyer . . .
If you're a pretender, come sit by my fire,
For we have some flax golden tales to spin.
I'm tall, laid back, and maybe a little reserved at first. If I'm comfortable and settled into my surroundings, then I can be very outgoing, and once you get me going-- especially about orchids or something I love-- I might never shut up, so be careful!
I have two kids that mean the world to me, and thankfully they spend a lot of time with me... this means not a lot of free time, but it also means hugs almost every morning, and a connection and love I never knew existed! If you have children you understand, if not I hope you discover the same joy and feelings for yourself somehow in your own life someday.
I grow orchids as a hobby/obsession and I am in the process of turning it into a career.
I am a big fan of personal growth and improvement, and have been reading, watching, and learning from Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer, Deepak Chopra, Oprah (and her OWN network), etc.
I was born and raised in the Midwest(Indiana), but have been in South Carolina since coming down to study Chemistry and Marine Science at USC. Go Gamecocks!
I spent the majority of my working life so far in the music industry, doing about every job in the business (radio, retail, live, you name it!) at one point or another. Music is one of my passions no doubt.
I think I'm amazing! but that doesn't mean I'm selfish or conceited... I just think some self confidence is important. I mean if you can't or don't love yourself and think you're an amazing person, how can you expect anyone else to feel the same about you? That being said, I do know I am a work in progress. I'm always trying to make myself a better person. I'm an Eagle Scout and appreciate the foundation it taught me, even though I disagree with the current politics of the Boy Scouts of America.
I have answered an insane number of the questions in the questions section of the profile. My only hang up is that I believe life is full of shades of grey, not just black and white. That makes it hard to answer the questions with how I really feel, but then again that is why we should communicate more-- to learn about each other and see if we have a deeper(or any) connection. That is what I'd like to find first from this site-- people I can get to know a little bit to see if there is any real chemistry or potential, or just friendship before actually meeting in person. If there's some connection, then let's get together!
Lastly, let me say that I do most of this from my phone, so if I miss a spelling error or crazy auto-correct, forgive me. Especially on the questions. It drives me crazy not to be able to fix it for 24 hours, please don't hold it against me. Also if I message you, please respond wether interested or not, so I can know to move on if need be, it's just courtesy that should work both ways.