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oreo344

54 Lexington, MA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–54
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:29pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Online dating is a bit like Wile E. Coyote trying to get the Road Runner; your attempts backfire and you're left with that look on your face we all know too well. In any case, before they carbon date us, let's date.

I'm a witty, kind, athletic, and emotionally-evolved man. I am close with friends and family and am a devoted dad. Integrity and healthiness, beauty and goodness, mean a lot to me. I think a great partnership is one of genuine giving and receiving, sharing, warmth, growth, and the wonder that can emerge during special times.

The other day I was in the supermarket and saw a banner on a package of apple sauce that said: "Made with real apples." I thought, 'As opposed to…?' Then I saw a container of plain rice advertise "Gluten-free!" There's never any gluten in plain rice! I like to meet life with a lighthearted wit.

I enjoy hiking, kayaking, writing, and reading. Love animals and nature. Other adjectives that apply to me the way the floaty seeds of Eywah attach to Jake in 'Avatar": confident, playful, deep, gentlemanly, insightful, poetic, attentive, and outdoorsy.

Let's whet each other's appetite for romance. I want us to read to each other, cook meals together, talk late into the night, and enjoy discovering new places. Experience the sparkle together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finding ways to balance work and play, attempting to reflect and be perceptive, writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting, sailing, being companionable, and being a wordsmith.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my humor, and my intelligent, easygoing nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
It will be fun to talk about this in person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
rivers & the sea
love & its accoutrements
yummy food
ideas
the written word
sharing stories and experience together
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, love, words, dreams
Meaning and how conversation can elicit it.
Connection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home and enjoying it
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Our time will come.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like verbal banter.
You like integrity mixed with sweetness.
You like to connect, learn, see, share, feel, read, and laugh.