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59 Palo Alto, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:09pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Danish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m inquisitive, curious, and playful. I sometimes refuse to take life seriously. I have a wicked fast sense of humor, but also know when to be straight. Integrity and honesty are my way of life and very important to me.

I’m up to date (I'm in hi-tech!) but also an old fashioned romantic. I like outdoor activities, and my favorite hobby is flying airplanes.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how things fit together, where “things” changes over time. Historically I’ve focused on interdisciplinary science, but recently I’ve put a lot of effort into learning about spirituality and how that creates a life based on more than logic. In OKC's religion I couldn't put anything, because I was brought up Jewish but am really just spiritual these days.

I think the whole world needs exploring. I’ve gotten through a good part of it already, but there’s a lot left to see. In an active way - last summer I took my 18 y.o. son to Scotland and wore him out!

As for what I’m looking for: “Life is what happens to us while we’re making other plans.”
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’ve always kept trying to make the world a little better through technology, one step at a time. I’m still doing that. And a part time single parent to two clever teenagers who will be gone all too soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the twinkle in my eye, and eventually my sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No favorites - I like mostly everything. Although I minored in classical organ, my musical interests range from 1600 to the present. I like all food. Even okra, if done well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How it all fits together, where "it" changes from time to time.

life is not measured by the number
of breaths we take,
but by the moments that
take our breath away
-- Maya Angelou
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There aren't any typical Fridays. Sometimes I'm shuttling kids, sometimes I'm doing something, and sometimes I'm just relaxing, decompressing from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My answer is different depending on whether it's online or in person.
You should message me if
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... you want to.