OK, I don't expect you to like my cat.
I am a fickle, private, friendly, hungry, selfish, and cheerful creature most of the time. I live alone, and I value my private time intensely.
I just got out of something serious, and him and I are still talking. There isn't a lot of animosity there, but there is a great deal of sadness. Poignancy.
To cheer myself up, I am looking for nice, charming men to go out and do interesting things with who don't carry around a lot of baggage.
No alcoholics. I mean, look. Okay. I drink. I know what it's like to be a drinker. I know what it's like to be an addict. I know what it's like to battle this. And, knowing all this, I flat out will not take care of any other adult besides myself.