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originalthinker

46 / F / straight / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

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I am independent, creative, and motivated.

My Self-Summary

I like to be pretty up front so...
please note- If you are in a committed relationship and or marriage (or the person you are with thinks you are) DO NOT CONTACT ME! I'm NOT into that! And BTW, seperated = still married. Thank you-

If you are interested in hearing more about me, then here is my spiel...
I think relationships are definitely a give and take.
I prize honesty and integrity above all.
I love witty banter, good conversation and laughter.
I am intrigued with doing and trying new things, sometimes just because.
I work hard and try to find time for fun- actually I'm really trying to make more time for fun.
I am looking for a relationship that starts as a good friendship and moves onto a great friendship...and then we'll see-

What I’m doing with my life

Ya know...even though one plans- it just doesn't always move in the direction you charted...
So you have to keep 'tweaking'...that's where I'm at...'tweaking'-

I work full time, I'm raising my 2 kiddos, started school again, and working on my house...to name a few things-

I’m really good at

Designing / Space Planning...it's like a gianormous puzzle and I so enjoy figuring it out-

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, smile and my sincerity

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love the Blues...like Joe Bonamassa, Stevie Ray Vaughan...and I don't know them all...but I know I like it!
I like to read history, biographies, I've also got this thing for Nicholas Sparks- he writes the best tear jerkers, omg-
Gardening, outdoor spaces...definitely another aspect of my interests-

The six things I could never do without

a pencil, physical activity, sleep, laughter, outside and sunshine...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

all the stuff I need to accomplish...

On a typical Friday night I am

with my kids, trying to relax...

You should message me if

you are interested in making a good friend to start
are NOT pushy
YOU ARE HONEST
you enjoy humor
you want to share some time and get to know one another
you like kids and understand the parental obligations
YOU ARE SINGLE (and have been at least 1 year)