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My self-summary Propose an edit

Though I have listed myself as Bi, I don't know that I want to be with a man ever... It's complicated... I don't mind explaining, but not here.

I'm not sexy, I'm just me... I like to play my guitar and sing for the old folks. I need to loose weight - and I am working on that, but it just hasn't happened yet, however, I am not giving up.

I love being challenged in a conversation about worldviews, religion, beliefs... etc... not so much politics, though I have been thinking more about that lately... I like to share my experiences with people - but only after I have gotten to know you a little bit... that's only wise. On the other hand, I am open to somebody talking to me about whatever, within sane limits, and if a person feels the need to confide, I am a great keeper of secrets... I can easily forget what you told me and I am very forgiving...

Oh yes, I LOVE animals! I've have cried on several occasions while watching the Animal Cops shows on Animal Planet... both tears for sadness at the abuse that people pour out on the helpless creatures, and tears for happiness at how happy this dog or that cat now is in its new family.

Mainly, on this site, I am looking to meet new friends more than hoping to find my "one and only." If she happens also to be a member here, and we find each other, that would be so excellent and stellar! I also might be interested in finding that one guy...but I just don't know that you exist. However, just in case you do, I have my orientation as "Bi."

For the most part, I am attracted to women.

Cheers! Peace! Write to me!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I just recently decided that I want to go back to school to study comparative religion. I am sooo excited about that! In the meantime, I work privately as a home health aide for the elderly... a job that I love. Not only do elderly persons have a special place in my heart, but this "job" has taught me a great deal about compassion, patience, and how to care for another human being.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Art. I received a bachelors of fine art from PSU. Also, sometimes I am very articulate and can go on for ever about this or that, ... more frequently, I flub up simple sentences..."uh, I'm going to that thing where you, uh, buy things..." ;) OK, so really it isn't THAT bad. hee hee silly me. I'm an excellent listener... and I love to correspond...as long as it's immediate like email or IM. I really looooove to write emails back and forth...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

hmmm.... I've been told I have nice eyes. I have never asked anyone what the first thing they noticed about me was. I generally have a quiet demeanor, or quiet affect, and I am very peaceful. I SO wish I could say something like, "My STUNNING good looks," but it is not to be for me. I have been told that I have a "presence," though I am not sure that means anything as everyone has one of those!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Let's see... yeah ARTISTS needs to be included in that list up there.
I love Hundertwasser, Klee, Klimpt (who doesn't right?), Carravaggio.. and many others...

Ben Harper! Janis Joplin! Newsboys! Sarah McLachlan! Fiest! yah baby and many others... I tend to pick and choose, not really sticking to one genre.

I have to give notice to IMAGINE YOU AND ME!!!! That movie so changed my life... it's also complicated, but I will explain if you want to know...maybe after we get to know each other a little more...

Some other great movies: 300, Runs with Scissors, Life of Brian (pretty much anything Montey Python gets me), Love Absolutely Fabulous (the first two seasons and the movie "The Last Shout.") Disney's Sleeping Beauty and the Lion King, The Matrix, Star Wars, LOTR, movies like that... etc...and well... I can never remember all of them...but actually, I need to increase my movie knowledge, so if you have any good ones I should watch - let me know.

FOOD: Italian, Indian, Chinese, Thai and plain old 'merican.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

LIFE srsly, who needs it? ;)

relationships with my friends/family,
the trials of life that I have been through,
hope/happiness,
LOVE,
Art/creativity
Just the basics ;)

I HATE cantaloupe... it makes me nauseated... can do without all melons (yes even watermelon) No thank you to seafood... though I do like some kinds of fish...

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Vacuum, echo echo echo echo...

hee hee

It's varied... would I explode in a vacuum or would my blood freeze first? Or Both?

SRSLY, though, spirituality and all the trappings thereof...
I wonder if Obama is going to be a great a president as I believe that he will be. YEAH BABY! WE DID IT! and what does one do with a comparative religion degree? I guess I will find out! ;)

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

eh, varies, sometimes working with my clients, sometimes, just staying in, once in a while, going out, though Sunday night is the local dance club's gay night...wooo hooo... though I am always out with my Homos.. really, women, represent??????

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

... see me! :)

You should message me if Propose an edit

you want to... the prospects are high if you like to have meaningful discussions about life and love and their meaning... or you have some great comedy that I need to know about.
But, in short, just write... we'll go from there.

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orlaren: 1070 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
N/A
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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